From what i've seen i believe she wants you or at least wanted however as everyone said you should have tried to kiss her before. I also believe the jealous approach may be a good thing to try since now she has you where she wants.

The thing is a lot of times a guy isn't sure if a girl really into him but you shouldn't be afraid of trying kissing her, after all you can't lose a girl that you don't have, right?

Playing with her hands routines and such won't go anywhere. It's not like he just met her and he's building trust. Also, OP clearly mentioned several times that she's perfectly okay with light, friendly kino. It's a waste of time.

Jealousy might work, though I think the most efficient way in this case, as other posters suggested is to create a moment and go for the kiss. I doubt you can make her a FWB by the way. You're just not that sexual player type of guy in her eyes. Romance may help you to get into a normal relationship though.

"She's not ready for a relationship": Bullshit. Complete bullshit. She's not ready for a relationship...with you. That'd be more accurate. Up to you to change that.

This thread has been going on for 4 pages and we still haven't seen a sign that you tried kissing her even once. Which might be understandable as some advice here seem to contradict each other and that may be confusing to you. But as another, experienced poster said: This is not rocket science. Simple solutions are usually best solutions. Best for you for sure, because either you get the girl or stop wasting your time.

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I would straight up tell this girl;

Look, I can't hang out with you any more. Its your fault, all I can think about is tapping that hot ass. That's likely not going to happen, so see you in the fb news feed!

Then next her ass. Ball in her court!

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Heywood, that's pretty bold. Creates drama which women love, creates tension, shows that OP is not afraid of losing her. Pretty much genius, but there's a problem with it. OP can't even do as much as try kissing the girl because he doesn't want to risk losing her. Also, I think it would be very incongruent with OP's frame. I'm sure this advice works for you, and it would work for me, but OP is a different story. That's why I suggested a more romantic approach in the first place, I think it resonates with OP more.

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I know these feels bro. Same situation with the girl I was with & I ended up just calling it quits because I was too pussy to pull in after several dates. So I called it quits and am moving on and hopefully don't make the same mistakes again.

This.

And the other things that other poster mentioned about hand routines won't work go anywherr with this girl because you're not trying to build comfort with a glrl you don't know. But you will be if you move on and meet another girl!

Others mentioned jealousy; well, if you move on, meet another girl, and she comes and chases you down because she realizes she missed her chance.

You will be using jealousy, but for the right reasons.

The old addage goes "if you want to be able to get the girl; you've got to be able to get *all* the girls.

If you go out with another girl, and find her giggly, funny, and affectionate, and WAY more accepting of you, then suddenly find that the other girl comes after you and now wants you; you'll have all the options in the world, whereas now you have none.

Then, as they say, you would've earned yourself the greatest respect of all - self respect.

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