Yeah i guess so.I will not be a dick if i ask for a one on one date.It is a big problem if a girl invites a friend on the first date especially if i offer to meet in a very public place for coffee.

With all due respect, she clearly doesn't seem interested. Even if she does agree to a one on one date in public or not, the chances are she's just be using you.

I am not really living in much abundance but i do have a couple of sets lol .Even if i had zero sets,i don't think i would go on a date with a girl and her friend especially if she insists on that.There are many times i have done that and it has not worked.They say insanity is repeating the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.For some people, it might work for them but for me personally i only have negative experiences with chicks asking to come with others on the first date.

We met online and the time i asked her out and she suggested to come with a friend,was in the earlier part of our interaction.From then i have built more comfort and even talked a lot on the phone with her.We agreed to meet up this coming weekend and we shall see if she still insists on turning up with a friend.I plan to suggest a very public place to her and see how she responds.If she insists on coming with a friend,i will ditch her politely.Engage her but in a reduced manner.

I don't get the bit about her using me as we haven't met even yet.You could say maybe she is planning to use me lol.I haven't really done any favor for her.

As I said before if an uninterested girl who is open to using you agrees to a date with you, there’s a good chance her intentions are insincere.

hmm i agree.I can't really be too sure if she is really uninterested or not because i met her online and not during day game or night game.If i met her face to face i would have a better idea of whether she is interested but she is an online set so i can't really tell.she always replies to my texts quickly and i talked to her on the phone quite a few times and we would talk for long and the conversations are long and fun.I am not sure if if that is enough to indicate interest or what would indicate interest with a girl you met online other than her giving your number?

At this point my advice is just to go. You have your heart set on it and not many other options. What’s the worst that can happen?

Bla bla bla...all this over someone you've never even met? Just go meet her.

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Easy, he spends $100 on a girl and her probably fat friend with no intention of banging him.

People you need to understand that cost is not just about what you lose in a situation. It's opportunity cost - what you could have done instead with your time, money, and effort.

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Who says he has to pay? a man is not obligated to pay because he agrees to a date. That's ancient thinking.


This guy is posting a lot of text about a girl he's never met in real life.

He needs to go outside and meet women. She is one.

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OP has already stated the girl expects him to pay. No reason to hang around gold diggers. If you were more than a KJ here solely to get an ego boost describing himself as an elk you'd understand how people behave. Damn I wish there was an ignore function.

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Totally agreed, Arch. Just because she said she'd only go out on the date with him is if he is going to pay for her and her friend doesn't mean a thing...that's just seduction. She would be an idiot to think that if the date happened that it meant he was agreeing with her terms. Welcome to the 21st century ladies. #TeamStanton

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UPDATE:She rescheduled to mid-week.we were to meet today but she says she is a bit down with flu.She agreed to a one on one date though.

Various posters including myself have said not to go but he’s set on going. Given by the fact that he’s going we’ve established he doesn’t have better options and in terms of money, he won’t be spending anything he can’t afford.

He’d regret it otherwise, at this point I see no reason why not to.

Stop treating his feelings as facts! If someone's about to do something stupid, either tell him not to do it or don't say anything at all. Don't encourage people to be idiots. There are always options. Most of the barriers to his meeting more women are ones that he has made up himself.

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