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PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2016 6:17 am 
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And they want to be pounded by a strong, powerful man, too. A lot. And if you're more fit, you're going to be able to fuck longer and harder and toss your woman around like a dominant male should.
Or by a man that knows what he's doing in the bed. Pound guys just leave you sore with a yeast infection and a relief that it's finally over.


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And they want to be pounded by a strong, powerful man, too. A lot. And if you're more fit, you're going to be able to fuck longer and harder and toss your woman around like a dominant male should.
Or by a man that knows what he's doing in the bed. Pound guys just leave you sore with a yeast infection and a relief that it's finally over.

lol! A good man can do both.

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lol! A good man can do both.
And a great man would do less pounding and more stimulating. That's a hint. Take it however you want.


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I honestly can't believe this topic is still in debate.

People will go to ridiculous lengths to justify their laziness and/or shortcomings.

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Agreed.

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At this point, I honestly have to ask you if you go outside.
Women, like men, can tell when a clothed person has a great body. I see a lot of guys with great game, but they have hunched shoulders, paunches, and pizza tits (women can tell if a guy has these with his shirt on).
It all sounds like excuses to not get off the couch.
Holy shit man, the VAST majority of men just do not have the genetics OR willpower to get the kind of muscle that will look “great” (visible) under clothing (see OP!). Who are you kidding? I might as well ask you… do YOU go outside? Do you live in Florida? 2 layers of clothing and muscles go “bye bye”. Welcome to the Northern Hemisphere. Regarding exercise… I exercise about 8 hours a week, with the majority of that being weight training. And that’s completely beside the point.

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Holy shit man, the VAST majority of men just do not have the genetics OR willpower to get the kind of muscle that will look “great” (visible) under clothing (see OP!). Who are you kidding?

Wow, this is so weird.

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I might as well ask you… do YOU go outside? Do you live in Florida? 2 layers of clothing and muscles go “bye bye”.
hahha, this is so ridiculous. Muscles go away with two layers of clothing? You do realize most people have sex naked, right? You do realize that women can tell the difference between a guy who hits weights and a guy who doesn't with their clothes on, right?


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Welcome to the Northern Hemisphere. Regarding exercise… I exercise about 8 hours a week, with the majority of that being weight training. And that’s completely beside the point.
I live in the Northern Rockies, lol.

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hahha, this is so ridiculous. Muscles go away with two layers of clothing? You do realize most people have sex naked, right?
By the time she’s having sex with you… your muscles aren’t going to mean squat. What the hell are you on about? She’s already attracted to you … you “got the girl” (as per the original topic).
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You do realize that women can tell the difference between a guy who hits weights and a guy who doesn't with their clothes on, right?
Have you thought this through? It doesn’t seem so. Again, I’m pointing out:
1) To have muscles massive enough to show through clothing you’re likely going to need awesome muscle building genetics. Or drugs. Or both. This advice is therefore likely to disappoint and mislead the majority of guys. If this is weird to you, then you need to stop looking at roided up internet fitness people as role models.
2) Alternatively, if you’re going to dress up in a tank top or skin-tight t-shirt like a braindead meathead to try and show off whatever you have, you’re taking a big downgrade on dressing well. Taking a downgrade on style is a big no-no, if you ask me.

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hahha, this is so ridiculous. Muscles go away with two layers of clothing? You do realize most people have sex naked, right?
By the time she’s having sex with you… your muscles aren’t going to mean squat. What the hell are you on about? She’s already attracted to you … you “got the girl” (as per the original topic).
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You do realize that women can tell the difference between a guy who hits weights and a guy who doesn't with their clothes on, right?
Have you thought this through? It doesn’t seem so. Again, I’m pointing out:
1) To have muscles massive enough to show through clothing you’re likely going to need awesome muscle building genetics. Or drugs. Or both. This advice is therefore likely to disappoint and mislead the majority of guys. If this is weird to you, then you need to stop looking at roided up internet fitness people as role models.
2) Alternatively, if you’re going to dress up in a tank top or skin-tight t-shirt like a braindead meathead to try and show off whatever you have, you’re taking a big downgrade on dressing well. Taking a downgrade on style is a big no-no, if you ask me.

Auto....wtf are you talking about man? You can wear well fitted t shirts, dress shirts, pants, suits and jackets and it'll show. You use words like massive to go to the extreme to make a silly point. Will a chick know you have rock hard abs in a well fitting suit? No...but in a well fitting suit she can see from your shoulders arms and chest that you work out.

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Auto....wtf are you talking about man? You can wear well fitted t shirts,
T-shirt is indeed the best way to show off muscles, but you’re taking a big dress-code downgrade in nightlife venues. Arguably, muscularity is best for daygame. Again, I’m pointing out just how limited muscularity can be when it comes to creating interest/attraction. Let’s continue:
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dress shirts,
Even with a slim fit button-down shirt, you're going to need awesome genetics to show off anything. I have a “barrel chest” – sometimes I have a hard time closing the top buttons. Most guys aren’t so lucky. Arms – again, you need huge wrists (bone structure) to have arms that fill up a shirt sleeve completely, even slim fit shirts like those from Armani Exchange.
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pants,
Erm – you’re going to suggest wearing skin-tight pants? Really?
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suits and jackets and it'll show.
You use words like massive to go to the extreme to make a silly point. Will a chick know you have rock hard abs in a well fitting suit? No...but in a well fitting suit she can see from your shoulders arms and chest that you work out.
Again, I’m lucky with my barrel chest, and it works with slim fit European designer suits. 95% of guys aren’t so lucky. Shoulders? That’s basically bone structure (genetics) again and how wide they are relative to your (narrow) waist – not how hard you work your side delts.
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*Maybe* that’s not a well fitting suit – but shit, does Arnold really need one to show off his delts and arms? He looks rather “normal” to me here.

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PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2016 7:07 am 
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Couple of years ago I started working out and developed a really cool nice looking body.

I went to this part island in Croatia for the summer, where there was a lot of drinking
and partying going on. I thought now that I have the body, surely I will get girls
easily.

It turned out to not be the case. I was walking through the beach, showing off my
masculinity to girls who, to say the least, didn't give a shit about my body.

I realised that it was something else, it was the confidence and the charm that
truly gets women. If you can be the kind of a guy who is so comfortable around
them, approach them and engage them - your body doesn't matter.

To give you an example, as I was on that party beach, women around everyone, guys
showing off their buff bodies and stuff...I see a fat guy walking proudly, with 2 hot blondes
under his arm.

I first thought he was rich or something like that, but then my friend told me about him. He
wasn't rich, handsome nor had a great body.

But somehow he was able to be the guy women loved.

Why?

Not to go too deep, what I've noticed with most guys is most of them have outside confidence, which
means they depend on their car, or their money, or their looks for their confidence. But some
guys have inside confidence, meaning their confidence comes from something on the inside, and it's
not attached to anything outside.

So the fat guy was walking with a certain sense of freedom, he approached women and engaged
them. Even if at first they weren't into him, he'd just have that approach that would bring down
their barriers.

So to conclude, all those things like body, money or cars CAN and will help you, but they are NOT
the determining factor in whether or not you get the girl.

The determining factor is your confidence - is it outside or inside?

EDIT: Because the amount of negativity and scepticism from some of the guys here is incredible,
I want to show you a video of a guy doing pick up as a fat guy.

Enjoy.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X7PAYhmoKkA[/youtube]

Hope this helps,
this is so true and this video is motivation enough, that all you need to be, is comfortable under your own skin and make improvements if you feel you need too.


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2016 8:36 am 
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By the time she’s having sex with you… your muscles aren’t going to mean squat. What the hell are you on about? She’s already attracted to you … you “got the girl” (as per the original topic).
I'm beginning to get the vibe you just sit inside and play video games.

My gf and I egg each other on to keep fit. she loves my arms, curls up in them, and gets riled up. I work hard at it.


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1) To have muscles massive enough to show through clothing you’re likely going to need awesome muscle building genetics. Or drugs. Or both. This advice is therefore likely to disappoint and mislead the majority of guys. If this is weird to you, then you need to stop looking at roided up internet fitness people as role models.

This is such a lazy cop out. All men are capable of building muscle. And women love it.

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2) Alternatively, if you’re going to dress up in a tank top or skin-tight t-shirt like a braindead meathead to try and show off whatever you have, you’re taking a big downgrade on dressing well. Taking a downgrade on style is a big no-no, if you ask me.
A great body will supersede "style" every time, because style is a fad. A great body is harder to get than stylish clothes. Scarcity creates value, and it's why I can walk into a bar with a $20 t-shirt and go home with one of the hired guns, and the 40+ pound overweight slobs at the bar are going home and jerking off to porn despite being the same age as me and wearing suits.

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Couple of years ago I started working out and developed a really cool nice looking body.

I went to this part island in Croatia for the summer, where there was a lot of drinking
and partying going on. I thought now that I have the body, surely I will get girls
easily.

It turned out to not be the case. I was walking through the beach, showing off my
masculinity to girls who, to say the least, didn't give a shit about my body.

I realised that it was something else, it was the confidence and the charm that
truly gets women. If you can be the kind of a guy who is so comfortable around
them, approach them and engage them - your body doesn't matter.

To give you an example, as I was on that party beach, women around everyone, guys
showing off their buff bodies and stuff...I see a fat guy walking proudly, with 2 hot blondes
under his arm.

I first thought he was rich or something like that, but then my friend told me about him. He
wasn't rich, handsome nor had a great body.

But somehow he was able to be the guy women loved.

Why?

Not to go too deep, what I've noticed with most guys is most of them have outside confidence, which
means they depend on their car, or their money, or their looks for their confidence. But some
guys have inside confidence, meaning their confidence comes from something on the inside, and it's
not attached to anything outside.

So the fat guy was walking with a certain sense of freedom, he approached women and engaged
them. Even if at first they weren't into him, he'd just have that approach that would bring down
their barriers.

So to conclude, all those things like body, money or cars CAN and will help you, but they are NOT
the determining factor in whether or not you get the girl.

The determining factor is your confidence - is it outside or inside?

EDIT: Because the amount of negativity and scepticism from some of the guys here is incredible,
I want to show you a video of a guy doing pick up as a fat guy.

Enjoy.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X7PAYhmoKkA[/youtube]

Hope this helps,
this is so true and this video is motivation enough, that all you need to be, is comfortable under your own skin and make improvements if you feel you need too.
This is great advice, and very inspirational if you want to date fat girls.

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I love this debate because it always somehow turns into morbidly obese vs Arnold level ripped. As if those two results were collectively exhaustive.

Some details to note:

1. You should want to be in decent shape because a high body fat percentage will mean more fat in your face. This dulls your facial features, which are an asset.

2. Working out and eating healthy will give you more energy to practice pickup.

3. fMRIs have shown that women are less stimulated by looks in areas of the brain responsible for arousal than men. Girls liking huge muscles is more of a fetish than anything else.

4. Even if you gain an ideal body and face that appeals to a large number of women, you still have to pick them up. Looks can't replace putting in the time and effort to learn.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 03, 2016 3:09 am 
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1. You should want to be in decent shape because a high body fat percentage will mean more fat in your face. This dulls your facial features, which are an asset.
True. If you have "carb face", you're fucked. Most guys 30+ all look the same. All 35+ pounds over, all bland, and bloated looking. I can walk into most bars and have no competition for the hottest bartender. It's hilarious. Even if these guys are rich. Most women don't want money and a flabby guy. Most women are looking for a masculine man who makes them out-of-their-minds in bed, who then lets them cuddle, whom listens, and whom gives them space when necessary.




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3. fMRIs have shown that women are less stimulated by looks in areas of the brain responsible for arousal than men. Girls liking huge muscles is more of a fetish than anything else.
It's not a fetish at all:

http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/mus ... ract-women
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New research out of UCLA confirms: Women are attracted to muscular guys. A series of six studies found that muscular guys are catnip to women looking for fun, and they have twice as many partners as average Joes and weaklings.

Muscles/fitness are a massive advantage.

http://collegecandy.com/2007/07/10/appa ... e-muscles/

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According to the study, men who are “well-muscled” are way more likely to have more sexual partners and more flings than their compatriots who are less brawny (but perhaps more brainy?) The article also points out that these muscle men are twice as likely to have affairs with women who are married or in serious relationships.

All of to which I respond, “no shit!”

that's not even getting into the fact that muscular men make women feel "feminine". This is great for maintaining sexual polarity. Many guys in today's society are flimsy shopper types. They get dumped fast because there's no polarity. I'm a muscular guy and prefer thin, feminine women with long hair. The polarity is fantastic without even saying a word. And it can help maintain polarity in a relationship even if you start beta backsliding a bit.

Some good reading from a women's site:

http://slism.com/girlstalk/muscular-guys.html


We get a lot of talk about "boyfriend destroyers" on this site. All you have to do is look a lot better than her boyfriend in many cases.

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