I tend to agree with you, but I'll just have to throw the bait and see what happens. From there, I'll be making the decisions based on what happens next. The girl, as you have said, is bi-polar and I cannot deny this point, and hell does she love attention.

I did not put up with her bragging, she wanted me to listen and as a gentleman, a friend of 10 months and out of respect I just listened. I have no intentions of a relationship with this girl for the moment. As Hellhound pointed out, she is the horny type and you never know when she blows off and breaks her commitment unconsciously by her frustration and sexual drive towards another guy.

Thanks a lot for this post, it helped

You guys are watching too many teen-movies. This girl is no psycho, manipulator, or user. The OP is no player or pick up artist. This is just a mish-mash of two very ordinary kids who don't have much experience. The girl wants attention and she wants a relationship in any form she knows how; she's invested 9 months into it. The OP wants to fuck anything that doesn't have a penis; he's invested 9 months into this one. And WTF? You guys managed to pull an Alpha, Beta, Omega paradigm out of this fake story?

Any girl who's been in a bunch of relationships, good or bad, knows that investment time into a guy has nothing to do with it. This girl apparently does not know this reality... I suppose some girls never figure it out. Most probably figure it out by late 20's. She feels she's invested into it so she doesn't want to lose even this pathetic, plastic, flaky relationship with a guy who's dying to fuck her just so he can tell all his friends about it over a Saturday night xBox tournament. . . and show off to a bunch of strangers on an anonymous forum that he's all about the fuck and chuck. Hurray.

Any guy who's been around a bit (as the OP claims) knows that time invested into a girl has nothing to do with it. You're working on 15... You're working on 10... You're working on 100. Sorry, it doesn't work like that. If you are in fact working on 5 or 50, with an emphasis on the verb "work" in its participle form, it means you are currently fucking 5 or 15. Pick up isn't some linear equation where you "chuck" all girls then start up new. And if you've been "working it", then your relationship with this girl in your thread had to have already gone one way or another. If you've been "working it", any time this girl put up her hand, you'd have left or told her to leave and you'd have called up any one of your 50 girls. And by the 2nd time, you'd have stopped calling this girl altogether because there's no time for it. This is simply the nature of pick up. My point isn't to bust your balls over being a newbie; this forum seems to be mostly about the virtual PU muscle flexing any way. But this little virtual joy ride has hit a few interesting turns that stands to impede your progress:

1. By deluding yourself to believe that you are some player who is working over all this other meat, all the time quite successfully, you've fooled yourself into believing that this girl is some difficult to access pussy. Hey, you are soooo successful in other circumstances, it must be this girl right? Wrong... again, this girl isn't displaying any behavior out of the ordinary... (when confronted with try-hard-wannabe-PUA who thinks so highly of the fuck and chuck that he essentially announces it) You could in fact fuck her tomorrow, just as you could have fucked her the first day you met her. However, getting there will be a lot easier if you can get your head out of la-la land.

2. By vilifying this girl and turning the "game" into some "win/loss" war, you've automatically set yourself to be jacking off every night for the foreseeable future. Obviously, no girl wants to be the victim of a fuck and chuck... even those who LOVE one night stands. But because you're viewing a night of fucking her as if you're 'getting one over her', she's going to reciprocate by defending her self from these foreseeable “labels”.

3. By thinking that you are gaming all this other meat, you are preventing yourself from actually gaming others... Why would you even bother? It's all good. No other issues. You're "gaming 15 others" and there are absolutely no issues with any of them right? All smooth. Everything is on its way.

Let this one go. It's good for her. It's good for you. By letting her go, I don't mean for you to drop her or to tell her off. Just stop thinking that whatever it is that you are doing with this girl has anything to do with pick up; it doesn't. Stop thinking whatever it is that you are doing with 15 or 50 other girls has anything to do with pick up; it most certainly does not. Start from scratch; this is no big deal.