Having suffered from one-itis for a span of 4 years ( yes , Its possible, girls are fucking cruel sometimes) long story that doesn't need to be told at this point.

The best way Ive found of actually getting rid of one-itis entirely. Sarging like you've never sarged before. I'm sure its been mentioned, but go out and fuck twelve girls, and then see how specially she really is. If she's still special at the end of it all... there's a simple solution, rinse and repeat. Another twelve never hurt anyone

Having a bud to go out with whose got your back also helps out, try find yourself a wing man who helps reflect a better you. If you can work well together you should be able to line up an easy twelve.

A small note on something overlooked is when she asked you if you wanted to be fixed up with her friends.

This was an opportunity where you should have given an absolute yes.

Now obviously you wanted her to know that you were interested in her, and in a perfect world we could all be so forward, however, if she was not showing any serious IOI's at this early stage, how beneficial of a DHV would it have been when you went out with one of her friends and her friend told her about what a great kisser you were, how intelligent you can be, and how amazing the earth-shattering orgasms you gave her all night made her feel? This is biological, by proving you are a desireable mate to her friends, she now views you as a candidate to sire her off-spring (anthropologically speaking).

Simpler, girls always end up having a thing for their friends interests!

This would be the right move for next time though, as you have been friend-zoned and effectively neutered. The only way out of this hideous purgatory happens when you can display a much higher value in her eyes and do it indirectly. Maybe too late to ask directly about her friends, but what if you went out with her in a group and really got her rival or bf wrapped around your finger? She could be burning with a newfound desire for you, made all the more easy when you call it a night and head back to your apartment building. Which by the way, as a side note: Maybe it's not such a good idea shitting on your doorstep here. Because, chances are good that once you do have her, you won't want her (as other guys have pointed out already). But anyway, best luck either way.

LoveNothing has the right idea...


But is this girl worth it?

But, since she is making you dinner etc, I'd guess she'd like you too, but not interested in flirting.

I think she likes you, but is shy or doesn't know how to make the move!



Be the alpha!
Just make the first move!