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PostPosted: Thu Oct 06, 2016 1:32 pm 
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Yes what one of the people said was right she didn't reply cause she thought I might judge her. She is the one who brought up the topic again and said are you really 18? Then told me to guess her age I said 19 and she said 23 laughing and shit. I understand what everyone is saying like it makes sense. But I'm only stuck with the fact she has a BF and she is merely using me for her class and the homework.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 06, 2016 1:40 pm 
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Plus I can't do Netflix an chill it's not a excuse it's just my situation in life right now. And how far apart we live we just meet on campus. I think Friday would be a good indicator she wants to still hangout when we don't have any assignments and shit then I'll make my move and she how she reacts. But not sure what that move should be ...


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 06, 2016 3:41 pm 
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But I'm only stuck with the fact she has a BF and she is merely using me for her class and the homework.
Have you missed Jack's post about a woman having a boyfriend not implying she's loyal to said boyfriend? And it makes more logical sense to you that if a girl gives you attention it's not because she's attracted but because she wants you to do her homework? That's the level of confidence you're at?
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But not sure what that move should be ...
What do you think it should be?

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 06, 2016 4:16 pm 
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Hmm very true she is giving me a lot of attention. Well I was not sure what to do next. Like I don't want to be too aggressive. I need help it's obvious I'm not the most confident dude


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 06, 2016 4:18 pm 
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Also she has initiated all the texts should I text her also not sure what the text should be... Jack I need you lmfao


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 06, 2016 4:56 pm 
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Also she has initiated all the texts should I text her also not sure what the text should be... Jack I need you lmfao
Scroll up and look at R.C's link in his signature at his text guide. That's all you need to know for texting. At this point, I'm not going to be much of a help because you have logistical issues that need to be overcome. Sure, you can go places with her and be flirtatious, but if you can't take her back to your place or you back to hers then what's the point?

I know that there are a few guys here that may be in your position and would suggest making out in cars and/or motels...but that's now how I've been able to get things done.

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 06, 2016 7:53 pm 
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Hmm well either way thank you so much. You really did help. Like I know I haven't been able to express exactly how I feel. But thanks for all the help.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 06, 2016 8:10 pm 
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Well I just read his post helped a lot. That's just not a texting guide that's something that could help anyone! That's awesome post. He discusses issues I have faced all the time the insecurities and the neediness. That's why I thought she was not in my league. The post helped me with that too. Even the fact that she didn't bring up she had a BF if she wasn't interested she would have brought that up. That was awesome I'm glad I discovered the site. It gave me a weird sense of confidence but I really need to break the ice right now. We have talked in class before class and after class. I want to start a conversation now but no clue what to say. Like nothing at all. She has always started the conversation I want to but there is not a lot I have to initiate with.


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Well I just read his post helped a lot. That's just not a texting guide that's something that could help anyone! That's awesome post. He discusses issues I have faced all the time the insecurities and the neediness. That's why I thought she was not in my league. The post helped me with that too. Even the fact that she didn't bring up she had a BF if she wasn't interested she would have brought that up. That was awesome I'm glad I discovered the site. It gave me a weird sense of confidence but I really need to break the ice right now. We have talked in class before class and after class. I want to start a conversation now but no clue what to say. Like nothing at all. She has always started the conversation I want to but there is not a lot I have to initiate with.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 07, 2016 5:04 am 
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Yes what one of the people said was right she didn't reply cause she thought I might judge her.
Yeah I said that, and credit here goes to Eddie Fews.

Per Eddie, if you look closely enough, and have the right mindset, you will usually find that she's actually trying to prove herself to you, not the other way around


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