I think we have almost come full circle now. So close:
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She can do whatever she wants when she wants. EXCEPT fuck, or make out with other guys. Both of these things would make a negative impact my life.
Why would these things impact your life negatively? How is it than anyone's actions can be so? In anticipation of your response:
-STDs: wrap your shit of you don't trust her.
-She's on drugs: That's on you to know better not to hang out with this girl
-She's physically dangerous ie: dangerous driving or tells an ex about you that presents danger. This one is on you and your selection process as well.
-I don't see any other things here that could impact me in a negative way for her being with other men.
The key point here is that if you control your actions and emotions, there is no way that she can really impact you in a negative way.
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Now ppl on this thread are saying that's a stupid frame of mind.
Not stupid, but it has some room to grow
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Are you trying to say that perfect 10s with high value will always be fucking multiple guys, their whole lives, and I need to accept that? Is that what you're trying to get at?
They always have the option of fucking
multiple guys, at any time.
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To add, I've had countless exes want me right back after they went and layed other guys, by presenting a no-fucks-given confident alpha frame.
And very very few of them have gotten to fuck me again. Because it takes more from them, than a little "sorry baby I fcked up take me back
" That's my value.
If you believed it you wouldn't need the world to reaffirm this or even say this.
CHAT
