It's never over until you say it is! Even if She hates you, you Can still turn it aroubd and make her Fall in love with you

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Sorry bro, are you talking to me?

The incident described is well over a decade old. I only used it to illustrate a point.

We were never in a relationship and were officially friends. I'm saying that I had her in that position and should have done something sexual, whether kissing her or saying she turned me on or something that would be unequivocal. Instead I went for the soft stuff like stroking her face, more the kind of stuff you do AFTER sex than before it. In short, I was a pussy and didn't take the opportunity I was so obviously being given.

So I'm saying, get a grip and stop thinking that putting your arm round her and her not resisting means something. She's not going to resist that. But if you don't do something clearly sexual, you will at some point get a similar speech to the one I got, a "Let's just be friends/hope you didn't get the wrong idea" speech.

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Not exactly. I meant in general regarding my situation with her whether I still got a chance to get her or not.

If you haven't tried to kiss her yet and haven't been given a "speech" then yes you have a chance

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Okay all I want to know is if he kissed her already.
-Lindsay

I haven't yet because the last time we went out last Wednesday I felt her interest in me was dwindling. I definitely felt like she didnt like me as much as she used to these past couple of weeks.

If her interest in me seems to be dwindling should I still go for it? I havent heard from her for about 5 days since she's out of town

listen. she isnt loosing interest in you. she are just thinking that you dont find her attractive and you dont want to be more than friends, thats why she dosent show it as much. she thinks you have friendzoned her by not escalating. you need to kiss her now... even if you dont think the rigtht time comes. kiss her out of the blue. some times its the only and best thing to do, she would appreciate it. girls often find it very appealing to be spontaneous, you have nothing to lose, believe me.. ive been there, most of us have.

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http://youtu.be/-lOBc3QZD9w

I will just leave this here.

lolololololol

hahahah @ the video

Anyway now I have a dilemma guys. I havent heard from her for like 6 days now and she hasn't showed up to work all week since she decided to ditch work all week to celebrate her birthday weekend since my boss wouldn't approve her time off. Anyway I've tried texting her twice since she was gone but she never responded to either one of them. I'm pretty sure she got the texts too because I saw her post new pics on FB and instagram. She probably is choosing not to reply.

Tomorrow is my day off from work and i'm wondering.... should I call her one last time to see if she'll pick up or should I just do the opposite and let her come to me if she wants to talk? I don't want to look too desperate or thirsty to her but at the same time i'm wondering if I should fight harder to get her?

Dont contact her for some time, go find some other girls. Give her a little break, and if She likes you just a little bit She Will Call or text you within a weak. This could easily be another shit test. Give it a weak and se what happens, like some other hot girls facebook pictures and instagram, chat some girls up and let her fight for you

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Yeah that's what I thought. Okay i'll leave her alone and just let her come to me if she's still interested.

Anyway she knows where to find me if she's still interested

Hi guys,

I'd like to start by saying that I'm FAR from an expert at this stuff! But I've had similar problems before, so I just want to offer my 2 cents:

I'm not being mean or whatever to the original poster, BUT there are a couple of KEY things that other people have already mentioned & advised you on, namely:

1. There will NEVER be this so called "perfect moment" for a kiss! That shit happens in Hollywood, and life is NOT a movie, my friend!

2. You seem to be making this "situation" all about HER! SHE seems to be losing interest, what if I try to escalate & SHE doesn't respond well to it, etc!

Just to be clear, I am NOT saying that you should do anything to make this girl feel uncomfortable or any other bad stuff! But as other people have already said, you NEED to man up, get in a SEXUAL & SEDUCTIVE frame, and just kiss her! If it doesn't go how you'd hoped, then that will suck, sure! But at least you'll have a better idea of where you stand, and you'll never be able to blame yourself for not having TRIED!

"You miss all the shots you don't take!"

Don't do anything weird! But just go for it!

Good luck!

Jealousy tends to get girls attention, its a competition to us, so why not give that angle a try.
-Lindsay

Did you mean jealousy?

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