Stop chasing her. Instead invite when you are out doing something with your friends call her to invite her. Say something like, "My friends and I are hanging out at the mall, you want to tag along?" If she says No, act as if its no big deal that you'll have fun with your friends. Then don't talk to her for a while. Then call and repeat, again you are already busy doing something but she can come along. If she says, yes go for it.

She's running her game on you asking you to come buy because she's too busy. It's time for you to switch the roles here and get back to DHV - I'm too busy for you but you can tag along. I think you see my point here.

Good Luck,
J SMOOTH

everyones viewpoint makes sense. Logically because of the amount of conversation with zero physical interaction and no kino, I realize she must have put me in the LJBF zone....but why is she still running game then? Like get this.....she messages me today, says "I left a bulletin on myspace written just for you. You can read it if you want"

So I plan on running a freeze out (like a couple recommended). It sounds like the best thing to do...just ignore her till she invites me to go somewhere that will for sure follow through. But (and it has only been a day) I am having trouble running a freeze because of the messages she sends me.

On to the myspace message; I get home, I check it out. It's named : (insert my name). I open it up and is says -paraphrasing - I changed my song on my profile I would change it a hundered times for you, whenever you asked me too. but i would never change who i am ghettoness and all. She wrote that in poem fucking format.

How do I freeze that out. I mean, I feel if I ignore her now, or go thru the "im annoyed at you" phase, it might bust a 180. Do you think she is running game, or is it possible that she is just moving very very very very slow, and is actually too busy to hang out (working two jobs and going to school part time).



p.s.
how do i ask her to take that bulletin down? I do not want my name up on a fucking billboard announcing shit like that. kind of tips off other people.

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I know girls like this. She is either just being nice to be nice or she wants to hang out, but whenever you are about to, you weird her out and she has second thoughts. There is no coincidence option. Stop talking to her but tell her what she did wrong. Do not just stop talking without an explanation. Tell her everytime we go to hang out, you cant and it pisses me off so i guess il talk to you later. You now have a second chance. Enter this time, with a winner's attitude.