haha nighthawk, u didnt jst "get lucky" the obvious reason she was smiling at u was because of what you were portraying with your body language, we use our bodies to project our status and power and thats what sets the tone for how others will perceive you.
I totally agree with RsoeHelk, attracttiuon DEFINITELY isnt a choice!!!
As far as pick up wthout words.... lets just say attraction without words is definitely possible!!
I wrote a big post to another guy on the topic of body language, heres an extract..
as David Deangelo points out that when speaking to a woman:
"Body Language Vs Words"
of a total message
- 7% is portayed by words
- 38% by the voice tones
- 55% by facial and body expressions
so only 7% is what you actually say and the other 93% by facial expression, gesture, body language, voice town etc.
so obviously you're body language was portraying the characteristics of a high status male thats what triggered her hard wired automatic attraction mechanism within her! Doesnt really matter what you did from then on you probably would've got her....provided you didnt show any neediness or approval seeking behaviour, and didnt act like a complete jackass then the job would've been pretty easy....ur the prize remember.
and remember no such thing as failure....only learning lessons
i know coz i've wussed out many times before, and learned from it
Regards
magnum-1