He's got a point there. Attractive guys are idiots to the un-attractive, mainly because of jealousy and to feel better about themselves.

About fears, we are missing a huge one, the fear of getting hurt emotionally.

There are tons of hot girls around that had crappy relationships in the past, and are skeptic and relunctant about new guys on their lifes.

The only way I have to fight that, is to talk about her relationships, and try to show her I'm not like all those other guys. Its hard work sometimes.

If any of you guys knows a better way to overcome that, please share it. I have the usual dislike for relationship talk as anyone else...

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Kalle Lasn

"Motherfuckers best belive in....That you are fucking with the best" - 3oh!3

Teasing is a battle plan for what Shakespeare called “the merry war.”

Completely, totally, utterly WRONG . . . unless of course you actually like chicks thinking of you as their gay hair salon gossip buddy.

There is a reason why there are TONS of girls who had TONS of crappy relationships and why NONE will ever tell you about the sensitive gay guy who they will love for ever.

Also . . . I'm not just picking on you . . . but can anybody tell me why all of the sudden, I'm reading so many GAY GAMES? If you are gay, just be gay and go out and hang out at gay bars and chat about bad relationships, feelings, emotions, and the past. Just do it and be proud of it. (Although . . . most of my gay buddies would probably puke and call a guy a fag for chatting up this crap.) So, I'd still tone that shit down a bit.

Maybe I wasnt clear kasabi.

I meant that when I try to get into a relationship with a girl, sometimes they tell me that they dont want to get hurt again. It has happened a couple times now. I have this player image in the social circles I'm a part of, and since I rejected a girl a while ago the gossip is that I'm an asshole with women. (Not true, just ask the people that knows me).

So when I want to give myself a chance with a girl, my jerk fake reputation gets in the way.

The first time it happened I tried to talk to the girl to find out why she didnt wanted to be with me (she was obviously attracted, I mean, we made out a couple times).

Thats why that about "relationship talk" was on my original post.

She told me that her last boyfriend cheated on her. Long history short, he was a classic jerk. So, since I, in her words "hit on all those pretty girls"; she was afraid I would cheat on her.

I got tangled there, tried to talk about the other guys to take distance from them. I tried to convice her that I'm not like that, but logics never work when you are dealing with a woman's emotions; she was afraid of being hurt again.

The second time it happened I just told to the girl, "OK... when you are ready to get emotionally involved call me"

The probability of that event happening twice in a two month span is small. So when I saw this thread about fears, I thought that it would be a proper place to post it.

I'm not even minimally offended by the comment about the gay game. Again; I wasnt clear enough, and I understand that it was kind of easy to assume that I used relationship talk to game girls. I do not, and the fact that I dislike it has no sexual innuendo about gay guys. I do not like it because I'm not the kind of guy that likes to talk about feelings and most importantly stuff about other guys...I find it quite boring.

Next time I'll try to be clear enough for everybody when I post.

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"[Cool is] a heavily manipulative corporate ethos. ”
Kalle Lasn

"Motherfuckers best belive in....That you are fucking with the best" - 3oh!3

Teasing is a battle plan for what Shakespeare called “the merry war.”

That's actually pretty good.

Recently I was walking down a dark, sort of hidden road at night with a girl, who I'd met the day previously, and she said "Is there the part where you rape and kill me?" I forget what I said exactly but it was something like, "hell yeah, and then I'm going to bury you in that ditch over there, my plan is going perfectly so far".

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Hey guys what's going o...

Oh sorry I must be in the wrong thread

I thought this one was about Vin DiCarlo's objection game

Christ, I can't even read this thread any more. Guys, try removing your iphones from your front pockets. It's possible that its electromagnetic radiation is morphing the little balls you had into tiny little vaginas.

Jeeezzzzzzzzzzzzzz !! What are you doing man ! I know that you have more exp prolly based on your reputation points but I dont get the whole 'relationship talk' that you are logically trying to defend yourself. why in the world are you being defensive !!

She would not have been making out with you if she didnt wanted to be with you. What are you doing talking about all of girl's fears etc.. where is that triggering of emotions, seduction happening, where is the challenge !! She is not chasing you, she is talking to you like she would to her girlfriends ! She should be crazy about you and wanting to tear your clothes apart and jump on your boner ! and here you are talking about relationships . I agree with Kasabi's comments minus the gay comment.

1. lotsa off topic stuff
2. bits of flaming here and there
3. lotsa potential to escalate into straight up flaming

LOCK AND LOAD!!!