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They are usually the same thing.
I'm at a point where I have girls hitting me up consistently. Sometimes I get green lights from my gf, and I'll blow off these girls. It happens man, because:
1. I have a shit ton of options.
2. I don't really care about them like I do my gf, or maybe a couple other options I have.
I don't mean to be a dick, it's just the reality of abundance. and I only have so much time to manage this shit.
Maybe I wasnt clear so I'll repeat. Yes Arch, if you are blowing off/ignoring chicks because you have other options (and no set dates have been set)...fine...if you are telling chicks you're meeting them at a certain time or place and then ignoring them, you're immature and selfish.
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Who gives a fuck? A woman whom you have no relationship with doesn't owe you a god damn thing. Not understanding this simple early courtship rule will lead to emotional tirades and neediness.
When you have other girls waiting to suck your dick, you don't care about shit like this, lol.
Why is stating something is immature and rude imply someone gives a fuck? I have no idea why you think that stating something, means its an emotional tirade. Ironically, what you went into is an emotional tirade. I never expressed disdain for a chick who does this or said you should care. I never said she owes you anything. You're the one on tirades. I can look at my own actions and say hey I was being selfish there. Or I was immature there. If a guy friend had told me he set a chick up, and he asked my opinion, I'd tell him he was being immature. Doesnt mean I care, I'm just saying it as it is.
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No. you don't get it. Women don't owe you a god damn thing.
More emotional talk. "God damn thing"? You dont see who sounds like they're worked up over this?
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now, this is true. It does reveal a level of immaturity. But it's also not uncommon. The more you get laid by hotter women, the less you'll care about this shit.
Please reference where I sounded like I cared, or someone should care. Is someone caring about something if they say what it is now? Saying a chick or someone did a selfish action or was selfish doesnt mean condemn her about it,....But I'm not going to act like oh she just has so many options...she wasnt being selfish!
And I dont know why you keep speaking like having options is this jedi mind thing that only you get lol. Guess what...chicks like guys, some guys get women and dont have a problem with it. Its not just you, if all that stuff you say is true about yourself. Its like you cant fathom dudes getting laid. Lol, Arch you live in a small town talking to dudes like we'd expect a bunch of supermodels hidden in some mountain town? There may be some hot chicks, but lets be real, if they're that hot they wouldve moved somewhere they could actually model, strip or get good tips. Thats not a shot against you, but you gotta stop with all the extra side talk like youre some young hunk doing it big in LA or something lol. When I lived in a small town, I had enough sense to know not to talk about the hot chicks because everyone knows there cant be many in the 1st place. Lol, cant stop laughing...you cant be talking all that hot chick talk in a town. I'd listen to that shit from Jack, or Eddie, heck at least I live in a major city but I'd listen to them first if they're talking about abundance of hotties. But not you...and thats fine...you could do alright but you hype the shit up too much. Ive been through those mountain towns and if you're real with yourself, you know how "hot" is there. It doesnt matter, once you're happy you're happy, but damn you gotta think people are fools on here to think you found the supermodel El Dorado in some small town.
If you're doing immature shit and being selfish, at least call it what it is. I have no idea why you cant just be real with yourself.
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