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I've only scanned, but you texted for two hours and unless I'm mistaken, didn't even try to set a date?
"It's been a while. I'd love to catch up, when are you free?"
Depending on yes or no, you either arrange a date or reply with something along the lines of "Alright, that's a shame but get in touch if you change your mind" - easy.
Oh read my last reply. I was just debriefing. I fucked up, obviously.
future lesson: Start no contact on a positive note telling her to get in touch if she changes her mind, and be prepared to never talk to her again - if she doesn't get in touch, she doesn't want you.
Well I went no contact, and haven't contacted her since. I did write her a semi-long thoughtful text message right after she left, telling her I appreciate her taking the time to come talk to me face to face and basically told her I was in love with her. I left it at that. She wrote a long text message back with more bullshit about it not being anyone's fault, and me being an amazing person, that she did want to give it a try but our personalities did not match. I think this one is toast, and it breaks my heart, if I could just control my insecurities she would probably still be head over heels.
CHAT