If you are surprised or dismayed at young women acting insecure, occasionally depressed or worrying about life goals, then you haven't fucked enough young women, lol.

It's just what they are. And if you're not confident, emotionally-centered and dominant in the bedroom, they can often spin out of control, or at least from what your perception of control is. In this case, his gf is backing away from the relationship because he's turning her off in some way. And his perception is that "she's crazy".

Do you know what kind of guys say this?

Guys who don't understand women.


"my ex was insane"

"I'm glad she dumped me, she was crazy!"

Let me tell you, all of us want our women to be absolute crazy whores in the bedroom. I won't settle for anything less. But those kinds of girls are going to have swings, especially the 9's and 10's. And if you aren't showing up properly, those "swings" are going to look worse and worse to you (meanwhile she's totally normal to her parents, girlfriend's co-workers, etc).

Self-awareness is a tricky thing.

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I'm not into the numbers and bragging about how many women I've fucked, but I'll guarantee you that I will give anyone on this forum a run for their money. Most of the women have been in their twenties. Most of them from different parts of the country. The ones that I've kept around for any extended period of time have not acted like what the OP has described. It's not normal.This is the stuff that makes absolutely no sense to me. 9's and 10's are strictly a preference. For instance, you posted a picture of a girl that was in the movie tron...equated her to a 10 and then said your current girlfriend looks exactly like her. The implication is that your girlfriend is a 10. For me, personally, that girl was just meh. That's not meant to be an insult to your girlfriend...but to me she's attractive but nothing so great to get me to lump her into the hottest of the hot category. Does that mean with you, she'll act crazy like the OP described and with me, she'll act normally? No. Sometimes crazy is just that...crazy.

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Its not a surprise, same way its not a surprise if you said there are young women into drinking blood. Sure, they are out there, but they aren't the norm, nor should be. Actually, when you say that you put up with psychotic chicks, its more so a reflection of how many young women whove been with, as it then has to be a small pool. Same way if someone says most new cars break down the second day you buy them; well that just means youve prob bought 1 or 2 cars. Insecure, occasionally depressed?Sure, thats normal for most human beings. Psychotic episodes is not.
So true. I could go out and get a pool of chicks with these severe issues into me. But then I need self awareness to understand that I AM the one who is attracting these chicks. If most of the young women youve been with are telling you they shouldnt be with you, or anxious to the level of OP's gf, then you attract nutcases. Ive been dating hot 20 somethings since I was 18. Heck, I dated in my teens. Hence I can see the distinction between typical 20 something stress, and psychosis. Going back to self awareness, its a tough thing to look at yourself and ask why are the women I get this way? Is it that most women have this level of psychosis, or is it more I'm attracting my equals?

To jump on what Jack said, we dont even know how attractive OP's gf is. How can you assume, well that just means she's hot and this typical? She could be a cute chick, she could be a plain jane.

Whatever you are, thats what you'll attract. If you're a immature guy (not directed at you Arch) you'll attract immature women. Shallow guy = shallow women. If you're a STABLE guy, why WOULD you even be with an UNSTABLE woman? The people around you are more a reflection of yourself, so ask yourself, what does she say about me?

The immediate armchair diagnosis that this girl is "crazy" is a giveaway to inexperience, IMHO. It also smells of the "bro talk" from clueless men cliques.

I'm, not judging anyone, but when men get lazy and don't put in an effort to be self-aware, they fall back on "my ex was crazy, none of it was my fault". It's soooo common.

Most women aren't crazy and nothing the OP has posted implies or infers that she is. The more likely scenario (as we've seen here many times) is that the girl is pulling away from the OP for whatever reason. And it is in the high winds of this "pullback" that men often label their woman as crazy, when reality is the woman is fine, she's just going through conflicted emotions about one specific individual.
I think attraction is pretty well covered in many studies. Hot is hot.
Nothing has been posted that indicates the girl is unstable, IMHO. If anything, she is dropping very large hints that she may not be all that attracted anymore (IE, "you don't deserve me" comments assuaging her guilt for not having as strong of feelings). The birthday blowoff is the action of a woman who isn't all that invested.

I'm a big believer in placing more importance on what a woman does, rather than what she says.

A woman who shows up at my place in a rain coat and lingerie and who clacks upstairs in heels is a woman showing an incredibly high level of investment.

A woman who blows off my birthday? Not so much.

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There's a difference between not understanding a woman on an emotional level and armchair diagnosing her as crazy, and a woman that's obviously having serious issues.

I get what you're saying and it's valid, to a degree. But this is not the case. You're referring to a woman encouraging her man to go out and have fun with his friends today, and then getting angry and upset because all he does is spend time with his friends tomorrow. That's acting out on emotion (probably feeling neglected) and that's what guys label as crazy.

But this? Fuck no.

Like Jack said, every quality poster on this forum most likely dates women in their 20's. I'm in my 20's myself but I don't throw around the girlfriend title to any mental case just for the sake of that ass. That's what fuck buddies are for.

Hot does not equal unstable.

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