1. Waiting 4 days to respond to her call.
2. Telling her that she doesn't move mountains for you.
3. You display feminine qualities (according to her)

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@ New Dawn:

1. A cowerd? Never! i wanted to show her that she is equal to me!
2.No! It was "Hard to get" : She shhall think she is equal to me!
3. SoSuave: This side changed my life: U dont know my story but actually Iam quit good in DJ stuff! The problem is: if i like a girl, i become "NICE"!!!

@Jack Zero;

1. TRUE!
2. WHY?
3. Because I like her? I show interest? Cause Iam good? Have a good heart? Be a nice person naturally ? +
Yes, thats fucked up! Change ur personallity to a thug just to get laid!?

They are all trying to explain it to you, but we'er getting low on crayons.

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2. She's bought you drinks, wanted to come visit you, and reached out to you and you didn't respond. She's done all of the chasing and then you tell her that's not enough. That's why.
3. I'm thinking it's more because you are needy and seeking validation. Men that get girls that want to constantly be around them aren't trying to make women prove themselves. On the other hand, women are always looking for gestures from a man to prove that he is really into her.

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[quote="Bael"]@ New Dawn:

1. A cowerd? Never! i wanted to show her that she is equal to me!
2.No! It was "Hard to get" : She shhall think she is equal to me!
3. SoSuave: This side changed my life: U dont know my story but actually Iam quit good in DJ stuff! The problem is: if i like a girl, i become "NICE"!!!

I understand that that might have been your intention, i was telling you how i think she viewed it. Her comment about you behaving like a woman i think shows clearly that you were not perceived as a strong man, but an insecure one in need of validation.

Unless you are Brad Pitt or some rock star, waiting for 5 days before you replay to a call, with a bloody text?!, does not display hard to get to me, but insecurity or at best disinterest.

What is this talk about "wanting to show her she is equal to you"? I feel frustration and anger in your thoughts. If you feel like you need to show that, chances are you are not actually feeling it. Do you view yourself as inferior and looking to compensate?

I'm a beginner mate, but i feel like all the tactics and tips and tricks are not going to help you, because the problem lies within. I'm not being condescending here, because i had the same problem. Practice inner game and learn to chill. Tackele you own frustrations, insecurities and irrational beliefs before looking for more "fixes".

Man, I would have jumped on her the minute she said she would come to my place. What kind of man would turn that shit down lol. Bael you are acting like a woman, a little girl who needs to be rescued by the prince and in this case it's this woman. You are not treating her like an equal, you are making her work too hard for no reason and now she is over it because you tried to play it cool.


I don't think is salvageable unless you apologize about how much of a pussy you've been. AND not through text, an actual phone call.

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@ Jack Zero

I dont appear needy: a needy guy does not wait 4 Days to call back. But i appear that i need or seek validation.

@NewDawn

Yes i suppose she thinks Iam insecure and not "A Strong Man"......Thats fcked up! especially because she said sometimes she becomes submissive to men....
I dont feel inferior. Iam "Prince Charming" and "The Great Price"'! Therfor she has to work and shall invest.
But ur right! I need to fix my "inner game".... drop the frustration etc.

@Mr. Assertive

It was mostly womanish....thats true....


@all

What shall I do now?

You did other things that made you look needy. I told you before...you messed this up and there is nothing for you to do. The best thing is to move on and if she contacts you, then try again from there.

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Move on OP unless you're ready to kiss her ass

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Put the PUA manual away and stop forcing everything through that filter: sometimes a cigar's just a cigar. Meaning, if you find a girl crying and bleeding at the bottom of a staircase, she's not shit-testing you, she's hurt.

If you like her, start acting like it. She probably knows nothing of PUA strategies so isn't in awe of your mPUA swirly-whirly Game - hooking up has to follow a path the girl recognises, as in how it's happened before for her, so she can decide if she's going to go with it. I was going to say, act like a normal human being but you said you're not good with humans, but just humour me anyway.

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Again: thx for the answers!
As I said thats not the first time i mess up a girl which is/was into me.

Ill call her today after work and and "apology" for my words and womanish behaviour. Ill tell he that i want visit her at her place and undertake something

I suppose i can put everything on one card now at this point. If she is flaking iam away delete her number and never look back.

fcked up! She did not respond my call. Time to move on......

She probably was thinking the same thing

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Personally thats one of the hardest parts for me: "Walk away" and "Move on" although u like a girl and still wants contact and progress; especially if the whole situation is based on ur own foolishness.

Then don't fuck up.

If you start a business and it's going bad, you cut your losses and start over. You don't stay there and hemorrhage money.

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