Thanks for chiming in. Any thoughts on basic interaction. I mean she gets an idea how I act at work which is pretty chill and outgoing while she seems a bit reserved at times. Would you refrain from interaction. I mean not to avoid her but would you still talk with her with others in a group or even 1 on 1.

Very true with a friend of mine who I work with who talks about how I should hook up with her. It's kinda annoying but I now think it's funny because he always f#cks around with her to try and hook me up.

Would not take her to lunch during work hours. Everything will go down afterwork hours and in evening to night.

UPDATE:

She quit!

I haven't been seeing her around and I found out she quit. Should I call or text her? Need some advice.

You via text: Hey Sarah, up to anything fun? There's a cool DJ at Bar X tuesday night, you're welcome to join me.

If she says "no" without rescheduling, never contact her again. Then game other women.

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Thanks dude! Will find something happening then give that a go. Will report back once completed.

one of my coworkers quit as well. I got in touch with her facebook afterwards. We exchanged messages a couple of times, but nothing came out of it. lol I think just to get me off her she told me that she was gay .. could be true, I doubt it though.

I find if a girl cancels on you, or tells you that she is busy that particular day, and does not offer another date to meet...its done. Better cut your losses.

True. Text or call?

Update:

Managed to give her a call finally. She answered and was available to talk with me no problem.

She actually said something of the lines of "hey, I'm glad you called." We chatted for a while and I asked her why she left work. She said she found another job. Afterwards several words later I invited her to a show I'm attending Saturday. She said ahhhh I work on Saturdays. I'm off only Friday and Sundays. She then said that she will have to go to her home state this weekend after the holiday because one of her close relatives was killed. I don't want to get into that but she said that this week isn't the best because she will have to fly back home.

Anyway she said next week would be better I then said how about I give you a call mid next week and we plan something for Friday. She said that would be better. I said great, so I'll hit you up then and we'll get together and go out. She said awesome sounds good. I then said I gotta take off. She said ok, thanks for calling don't be a stranger.

So all in all, I think I got a solid shot of linking up with her. Was thinking of places I should take her for the first time. Food seems boring so I was thinking we hit like an art show or something and go for a walk i the city. What are your thoughts and how I performed. Also if you can share some places to go out for the first time.

Good work, man.

But keep it simple. Women don't like complicated or romantic first dates.

Just a drink at a bar.

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That's good, and I honestly don't want to burst your bubble as this interaction is way better than what I had with the girl at my work who quit, but I would say till she actually comes out to meet you, nothing is achieved. She is gone for a week, and I think it would be an emotionally draining week since a friend died, so don't be surprised if she she comes back and is almost a different person. Be ready to start back at square one.... good luck though, let us know how it goes

Thanks, was gonna call her tomorrow and set something up for Friday in hopes she will rekindle. Thing I'm having trouble with is logistics. I don't have a place to pull her to besides my car. However, she has a spot so do I find a place to chill by her apartment? This was the logistics will be closer to her or should I taker her for a ride into the city and go for a park walk, beer, etc? All help appreciated. I was thinking a beer then museum visit since she said she likes museums.

Some of you may not like the museum visit because it's during the day. I'm bad at this .. If anyone has suggestions please chime in. Do we do a dinner? Catch a show? Helppppp!!!

You already got the answer to that question but just to highlight it again - ask her out for a late night drink at a bar! Preferably one where you are able to do something fun, such as playing pool, darts or whatever. In my city we have a bar where you can play table tennis (around the table) and it's just a great way to crack jokes about her style and to get the girl loosen up.

On another note - why do you not have a place to take her? You need to get this sorted if you want to have succes on a regular basis.

I have my crosscar for a place, will that work?

Update:

Last ThursdayI called her, she didn't answer so I left a message to see what was her schedule for Friday. I know we spoke about meeting, so call me back when she gets a chance.


I text her Monday evening saying : Hey what's up!

Its now Tuesday early morning and she text me back at 1:30 am saying: Hi

I didn't respond back because I don't know what to say and why no return phone call but a text.

Idk write this one off?

Or continue to approach and lay her in my crosscar?

Laid? In theses two pages I didn't see any effort to get laid.

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Update:

Did a text exchange in efforts to link up with her. Please let me know your thoughts, here is how it went...


Me: Hey whats up?

Her: hi

Me: Jack Frost lost his damn mind today, it's subzero outside. How do Floridians make out in this weather? Do you have an igloo built?

Her: lol hush.

Her: i have heat in my blood

Me: Heat like hot sauce

Her: no like boiling water on a fire

Me: Hmmm technically boiling water can't catch fire. Unless of course you have super powers. Are you a super hero on the down low?

Her: yes

Me: You know what it all makes sense now. I mean you did say you can read people once before.

Her: i dont read people

Me: You told me you were able to before. That's kinda weird anyway. I'm the type of person that likes to flow like water. I just like to feel things out you know

Her: yes. Discernment!

Me: No

Me: Anyway... What's your week look like. Friday looks like?

Her: I get weird feelings about people. Long story... but Im definitely catching up on my rest. That's the day i run my errands. I will ttyl ok

Me: Lame!

Her: lol

Me: You don't want to have a good time. To bad.

Her: Listen Nyker Cali Ryder, don't be trying to read me through text msging

Me: I understand some people aren't socially and mentally connected No pressure

Me: I actually hate text messaging

Her: plus my cousin coming to town soon

Me: I'm just trying to setup a time show you a good time

Me: Excuses...

Her: me too...I have a lot on my plate. I like to take care of business first and socialize later. We will

Her: I will let you know I promise.

Me: Let me know!

Me: That doesn't work for me

Her: no bueno

Me: Not at all.

Me: But all good, you promised so I guess I'll have to hold you to it.

Me: But if you break your promise you will forever be evil
never!

Me: Well hey don't wanna waste anyone's time so if your not feeling it It's cool no pressure

Damn. It's good that you aren't a professional gambler because you do not have a poker face.

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