No, that's not true. I just don't use this website very often. I'm very busy. I am interested. I don't see very many responses though so why not ask some questions relevant to me? did you answer the question? (can't check until i hit "submit" on this message.

Um, you didn't even answer the question, so what are you complaining about?

are you on friendly terms with an ex?, or do you avoid them at all costs?

I ask because I'll never understand one of my exes. We broke up because I was moving. Then he was coming to my town for something, so I thought we could grab coffee and catch up. we lived in cities across the country, so I didn't have any other expectations. But he basically ignored the gesture. i added him on linkedin and he has ignored the request. i am "friends" (?) with other guys i've dated on linkedin except for him. It sort of bothers me because I wonder if he hates my guts - if he does, I'd like to know why! I never did anything bad to him, (that i know of!).

The other thing is that he kinda turned into a jerk after we decided to break up - he went from nice guy to being very criticizing and condescending overnight. Made me wonder if he felt that way the entire time and just never said anything until after we were no longer a couple.

anyways, what do you guys think happened? do you think he thinks I wanted to get back together when i suggested we hang out when he was in my city?

thing is it was clear we were not going to do long distance, so if he did think that, he does not give me enough credit. but I also wonder if he thinks I am a mean bi0tch. He once called his pal's wife "mean" for getting mad at the friend for going to the Twisted Kilt. I am sure he felt i was "mean" too when I called him out on his behavior. Does he hate me now because I was "mean" to him? and he won't even be my linkedin friend??? or is he simply indifferent and uninterested (it's ok, I won't be offended if you say that!) anyways, we have a mutual friend, and its just awkward when she mentions him and I'm thinking, oh yeah that guy who hates me and won't speak to me...AWKWARD.

are you on friendly terms with an ex?, or do you avoid them at all costs?

I ask because I'll never understand one of my exes. We broke up because I was moving. Then he was coming to my town for something, so I thought we could grab coffee and catch up. we lived in cities across the country, so I didn't have any other expectations. But he basically ignored the gesture. i added him on linkedin and he has ignored the request. i am "friends" (?) with other guys i've dated on linkedin except for him. It sort of bothers me because I wonder if he hates my guts - if he does, I'd like to know why! I never did anything bad to him, (that i know of!).

The other thing is that he kinda turned into a jerk after we decided to break up - he went from nice guy to being very criticizing and condescending overnight. Made me wonder if he felt that way the entire time and just never said anything until after we were no longer a couple.

anyways, what do you guys think happened? do you think he thinks I wanted to get back together when i suggested we hang out when he was in my city?

thing is it was clear we were not going to do long distance, so if he did think that, he does not give me enough credit. but I also wonder if he thinks I am a mean bi0tch. He once called his pal's wife "mean" for getting mad at the friend for going to the Twisted Kilt. I am sure he felt i was "mean" too when I called him out on his behavior. Does he hate me now because I was "mean" to him? and he won't even be my linkedin friend??? or is he simply indifferent and uninterested (it's ok, I won't be offended if you say that!) anyways, we have a mutual friend, and its just awkward when she mentions him and I'm thinking, oh yeah that guy who hates me and won't speak to me...AWKWARD.