Texting a girl for Day 3. No Response



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2016 5:22 pm 
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No, I never let the girl set up the logistics. That's amateur. I read RC'S guide and it's awesome. I always set things up. The basics were the convo was light, I lead it and passed it her tests and offered a day and time. With no reply. I was thinking of sending a picture of my dog and say "Someone wanted to say hello"

It ended like this
Me: You totally get my sense of humor. Let's get together this week Her: I would like that but I'm now on my way to *Out of state* to babysitting adventure until next Sunday. Can we meet when I get back. 
Me: Sure; I'll be back from *Out of State* (I said I'd be leaving as well. I travel a lot) by then. I have Tuesday open at 8 PM. How's that 


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 21, 2016 4:34 am 
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There could be a million reasons, it's hard to say. Perhaps someone else could help out.

Here are some things I would've done differently:

1. Keep the fun going. Instead of "You totally get my sense of humor. Let's get together this week," I would've texted "Murder beach, Friday, 6pm. <add a little something you and that dexter wannabe would've killed>" The difference is psychological -- in the latter, you're subtly assuming she's already in -- in the former, you're commiting to her and suggesting it. Not a big deal, just little nuances that probably don't matter much when you've got an interested girl.

2. When she said if you can meet when she gets back, I would've teased her about it first

Just stuff to keep in mind


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 21, 2016 6:10 am 
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Small update. I'm seeing her today. I'll send what I texted her soon.
Girl 2 the one I liked didn't reply.


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2016 2:46 am 
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Girl 1:
Me: I have the perfect movie in mind :P What are you doing tomorrow
Her: Which one?
Her: I'm babysitting tomorrow.
Her:Actually all this week
Me:Where's the fun in me telling you, ha
Me: Out of town this week. Let's hang next week; we really clicked

No Response.

Bad meta, bad. Girls like guys to live in the moment and not spill their guts early. You did with this "clicked" line. I wouldn't even say that to a girl after she's let me cum in her mouth. That's like 1-2 month shit.

The movie line showed too much thought/investment this early on.

Edit: if you're seeing this girl, there must have been good attraction in person to get past this text. Nice.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2016 7:09 pm 
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Hey guys, so I texted this girl after a day 2 and asked to meet up again and she hasn't responded it's been like a week. I also texted another girl for a day one and didn't get a response yet. With Girl 1 maybe I lost her but I can ping her and see what happens. With Girl two, she's new and she hasn't confirmed after a few days.

Girl 1:
Me: I have the perfect movie in mind :P What are you doing tomorrow
Her: Which one?
Her: I'm babysitting tomorrow.
Her:Actually all this week
Me:Where's the fun in me telling you, ha
Me: Out of town this week. Let's hang next week; we really clicked

No Response.
She doesn't like you and is trying to let you down nicely. Hoping that you'll eventually lose interest and give up.

Not necessarily your problem however. I know girls who do this to pretty much every guy who talks to them.

I know this may seem a bit mind blowing to some guys on here... But there are girls out there who grew up with less than perfect lives. Girls who are fucked up in the head and do weird, illogical things when it comes to relationships. Daddy issues maybe? Don't take it personally. Just move on.


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2016 7:12 pm 
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Girl 2:
Me: You totally get my sense of humor. Let's get together this week Her: I would like that but I'm now on my way to *Out of state* to babysitting adventure until next Sunday. Can we meet when I get back.
Me: Sure; I'll be back from *Out of State* (I said I'd be leaving as well. I travel a lot) by then. I have Tuesday open at 8 PM. How's that

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So guys, what should I do in both cases. I'm thinking maybe send a image or what should I text.

And this was way too "gamey" with the "you totally get my sense of humor" thing.

From now on, none of that shit. If a girl likes you and wants to hang out with you, then you don't have to do any of this weird, cute, pick up shit to try and win her over. You are heading into a relationship from hell coming at a girl trying to "game" her and win her over. Cause even if you do, she's got control.

Stop going above and beyond what you'd usually do to meet up with a stranger because you think she's pretty and has a vagina. You'll start meeting girls who are GENUINELY interested in you that you don't have to "game."


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 23, 2016 11:28 am 
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And this was way too "gamey" with the "you totally get my sense of humor" thing.

From now on, none of that shit. If a girl likes you and wants to hang out with you, then you don't have to do any of this weird, cute, pick up shit to try and win her over. You are heading into a relationship from hell coming at a girl trying to "game" her and win her over. Cause even if you do, she's got control.

Stop going above and beyond what you'd usually do to meet up with a stranger because you think she's pretty and has a vagina. You'll start meeting girls who are GENUINELY interested in you that you don't have to "game."
This is an answer to my post as well and a friendly reminder to something that I already knew. An interested person will show it by initiating conversations and will find time to meet you.


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