I used to go out with my old roommates and they didn't want to talk to girls at all. They just wanted to get really drunk, dance and smoke with their small group of friends and not interact with anyone else. I tried to pull them into sets with me and they'd just walk away rudely, which at that level of my game was a major DLV, cause I was kinda shocked and wasn't unreactive, like I should have been.

I told them I didn't want to get drunk, I would only have maybe 1 every hour to hour and a half. They gave me hell for just that, so I told them that they could give me shit and come out alone, or shut the hell up and we'd have some fun. They kept being really reclusive and I always felt weird being the one person in the group out wandering around the bar talking to people, so I just stopped going out with them, cause I wasn't having any fun.

Ditch the friends. Why not? Doesn't mean you have to tell them off and never speak to them again, just means tell them that if they are going to pressure you into doing something you don't want to do, then you don't want to hang around with them while they're out at a club. You can still go with them now and then and have a night with the boys, but when you want to sarge, then go sarge and don't waste your energy dealing with that, because it's going to detract from the energy you want to put into sarging. It's about fun and it takes a lot of energy to have that much fun for that long, seriously, so don't fucking laugh!

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Ditching my friends is not my plan. Clancey you can relax =P

I am going keep some distance with these guys for a while. (means not joining them on the alcohol sessions), because i dont wanna end up as an alcoholic.

Imma go to sleep now...lol, tired from school xD

PS: cool advices thx for the help!

Jockingly