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When i'm at work i'm at my best. I have no issues talking to my uppers or colleagues, in contrary, i always seem to be really good at those type of conversations even to the point that my supervisor started including me in a very positive way.
It's easy to talk to ugly co-workers.
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My issue is consistency outside of my workfield.
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when i was younger, i'd always seek validation, go out for a few months and feel depressed that i sucked nuts at socialising which kept me locked away again. I swore an oath when i got accepted into my new job that i'd be myself a 100% and get invested in people rather then have them come to me only to be given uninteresting conversations. Having this attitude has gotten me a ton of friends and it really did push my confidence to actually show weakness (things i never could before) and even neg people (also something i could never do).
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90% of my co-workers are actually hb 8's+ because they are there for presentation reason. (Probably picked for their beauty more then anything). I have absolutely no issue striking up conversations with them or random people i haven't met before, simply because we are all connected through what we do and it makes approaching extremely easy.
Had a married woman coach me today and managed to neg and physically escalate her like i have never done before because i just felt good. Even to the point where she'd keep getting physical with me, holding my hands, legs, etc..
My issue as i mentioned before is consistency. When i first meet people i have enough rapport material to build with, but once that slims down and it comes down to casual conversations i tend to fall short, i'm afraid it'll eventually kick in. I'm good at using my material at work because i can bend it in a funny way, i'm just really bad at holding conversations that are about things not including my work.
I do have to agree, things are definatly improving because as i mentioned before, i'm forced to talk a lot for 8.5 each time not giving me room to isolate myself like i used too.
Strangely enough, i'm still very energetic when i come home as opposed to when i was younger, i'd be exhausted if had to talk for 1 hour straight but that's mostly because everything i do comes naturally and i never think twice.
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