I haven't responded to 2 of her snaps and she sends me another one. I haven't opened it yet.

I don't ever respond quickly. Usually hours later. What do you suggest I say to her at this point I have nothing to lose. I'm thinking of trying to hook up with her.

Naked snaps? Netflix and chill

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That okay can mean as much or as little as you want it to mean. Might not have meant much when you typed it out, but the more you ignore her, the more that "okay" will mean.

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She sent me one flirty saying " my hair is half straight like me"

I haven't responded to that one.

Should I just later on tonight kind of sexy looking and just say "come over tomorrow " and if she says no I'll just not respond at all.

The problem I have is that she sends me these snaps and I feel bad ignoring her but at the same time I'm getting pissed of her doing that and not wanting to meet up.

Simply put should I just send her a hot snap to respond to her later on saying come over or ignore her totally. Thing is I don't want her to think that I'm being mean by ignoring her but at the same time I'm getting annoyed of this messaging and not wanting to meet up.

Sorry to inform you of this but she clearly doesn't respect you. She's denied meeting up with you and yet is playing with your sex drive like this.

Best move: let her send all the bullshit messages she wants, wait till she's tired herself out and once it's died down send this:

"hey sorry I didn't reply sooner, thanks for all your messages, they were very...entertaining"

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Would you prefer having her think you're a tool for putting up with all this shit?

I said this before, you're wasting your time. Had she had interest, she's show it through ACTIONS. Not a few half flirty snaps.

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i also like this

Second this

I agree, but it would be helpful to know the content of the snaps.

It's amazing sometimes what one well timed dick pic can do.

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Aha I also agree,but when a girl loses respect its kind of game over. Something I've recently realised girls want someone they can kind of look up to and admire. Not a little a pussy( still working on it myself)

Yeah yoy guys are all right. It's a waste of my time and she doesn't respect me. Yesturday I felt a bit down and I simply told her I missed her and she responded how she missed me too . I told her to come over after work and she answered "have plans cant" She even said she didn't have time a few days ago and has plans. So later in the evening I just sent her this :


" this might be out of the blue and I feel I should have done this 2 months ago (when she broke up with me) and I want you to know it's not coming out of anger. I don't think we should be in contact anymore. If you do want to get back together and only if you want to get back together then you have my number. If it's not the case then I don't think we should communicate any further"

I then removed her from everything
Snap chat , fb and instagram. She responded saying

"It isn't out of the blue and I had a feeling you'd do this. I'm sorry we can't be friends. I do enjoy your company and friendship. If this is what you need then it's the right choice."


I know you guys might think all this was weak and not a good pua tactic but that's it I just don't see the point of being her friend or her ego boost. I already asked her 3 times to meet up after seeing broke up with me and it was always no. Or its too soon bs. Fuck it I'm not wasting my time any longer.

Yet again without sounding horrible, she doesn't give s fuck. If she really cared about you friendship do you think she'd be like this ( both from a sexual and no sexual standpoint)

Life's cruel there you have it

Yea bad move by throwing some what of your dignity away by telling her she can get back together whenever she wants, sold yourself way to cheap.

Now as usual get fit, date other girls, have fun in life and maybe it helps to state she misses you at times and is also hurt, she will have good memories and weak moments.

Ignore her for a month and if she still had not sent you any "bait" she is one strong woman.

All the best moving on!

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