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PostPosted: Thu Jan 28, 2016 7:28 pm 
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Needy.

Use texting for setting up next dates, not getting into all this pointless banter which has the undertone of you qualifying yourself to her.


As they say "talk is cheap".


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 28, 2016 8:34 pm 
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Texting: Means of communication. You don't fuck up through texting, you fuck up through having no game and not knowing how to communicate with a woman.

Solution: Keep improving and learning, you fucked up this time, don't do it again.

Ultimately to be an effective PUA all you have to do is learn how to vibe and communicate with the girls better.

Everything else is natures gift.

Best way to do that is to communicate with a lot of girls often and get good at vibing and pushing for your desired result.

I personally got good at texting by just texting a lot, sucking at it, and meeting more girls who I text and suck less and eventually you reach god mode. How many girls do you have to text? I say the more the better till you get it.

Good texting is actually very simple. So don't be dissuaded. Develop the intuition.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 28, 2016 9:15 pm 
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If a girl is texting you first thing in the morning (I don't care why) you can get away with this for a bit, but it will lower your value over time.
What do you mean by this?

It means she is thinking about you right when she wakes up. She's kind of hooked at this point, and you can make more mistakes without getting dumped.

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If a girl is texting you first thing in the morning (I don't care why) you can get away with this for a bit, but it will lower your value over time.
What do you mean by this?

It means she is thinking about you right when she wakes up. She's kind of hooked at this point, and you can make more mistakes without getting dumped.
Thanks man. You mentioned "it will lower your value over time," I do not understand that part still.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2016 8:57 am 
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It means that when she's more invested in you than you are in her you can get away with this kind of sappiness, but not for long.

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I agree with most comments here. Especially n2TheVoid. God mode is barely achievable for most of us, but luckily it's a lot more simple than that if you just use the phone to set up dates.

My text game is fantastic, but it's nowhere near as good as silence to leave the girl confused as to what will happen on the date, and let the anticipation do its thing. This is where attraction is magnified.

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