I can't be the only guy in the world that can hit the gym or pick up girls after a wank?

Motivation comes from my brain. Not my penis.

By the way, I'm kinda naturally circumcised so my bellend is quite tough so I can last for too long.

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I really don't care what that book says... I've got multiple people with real life testimonies.

There are so many guys that have come to me and said "Jay, this is really embarrassing. I have a hard time getting my dick hard when I go to have sex with a girl."

But they have no problem getting it up with porn.

Porn is nothing like a real woman. If you're overly used to porn, your reptilian part of your brain isn't going to know when to work when you actually have sex. (meaning you forget whats actually supposed to make your dick hard because you're so familiar with the LCD screen getting you off.)

I've written multiple posts and articles about this over the last few years. I'm not going to get into it again.

If you stop watching porn, any problems you have with women/dating will gradually disappear.

I'm giving that advice as someone who's reputable on this forum. As someone who charges people for coaching.

That doesn't cost anyone anything to do. I don't profit from it in any way.

The only reason guys will make excuses as to why it's okay to sit in dark rooms, playing with their winkie in front of a computer screen is because it takes more will power than most people are willing to give in order to stop.

You should have girls play with your pee pee. Not do it yourself in your bedroom. That's for them to play with.

If you don't believe me, I really don't care. I will challenge you to try stopping watching porn for 90 days and tell me you don't notice an all around better difference in yourself.

I haven't rubbed one out in over 2 years now. I can have sex for as long as I want. I'll say that again...

As long as I want.

I can honestly cum on command. With no condom too. And my dick will stay rock hard the entire time.

Sex is much, much, much better. For me and the girl.

So don't try and tell me to read some bullshit book that says I should desensitize my dick. That's hot garbage bro.

I would highly suggest you stop posting on this thread before I call you out for talking complete bullshit.

You clearly don't know what you're talking about.

You sound like you're pulling all of this shit from a book.

Women can have orgasms during vaginal intercourse. It has nothing to do with what you do to her physically though.

It has nothing to do with how you lick her clit. You could do the perfect "pussy eating technique" according to a book.

But if you're not emotionally connected with the girl, she's not gonna get off. Sorry.

It's a matter of her hitting an emotional orgasm that will make her explode.

Therefore, a woman having an orgasm isn't your responsibility. If she doesn't get off, it's not your fault.

Why?

Because she's not emotionally healthy in regards to her sex life. She's got issues. That's not your problem.

That's why guys should quit watching porn. Do what you can to raise your testosterone. Be sexually/emotionally healthy yourself and you'll hold up your end of the deal.

I can't stand people who talk like a fucking text book. Enough of this forum world bullshit. Give real world advice or no advice at all.

C'mon dude, while it's true an emotional connection is one of the most important factors, you can't simply state that not getting off is completely on her.
Some guys (or most) are just bad. Did you ever not get a shit blowjob?

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This isn't about you.

This is about the OP asking for advice and opinions. You gave yours. I gave mine. I called bullshit on yours. You called bullshit on mine. We cannot agree all the time. That's just the way it is. Sometimes we agree. Sometimes we don't.

As for Kline-Graber, that's as real world as it can get. Too much better than my real life experiences. The husband and wife team are clinical practitioners. If you don't like the book which you haven't read at all, that's fine with me. I don't like Manson either whose works I've read several times just so I know what I am disagreeing about.

End of story.

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This dude is fucking dumb.

If you are spending forty minutes fucking a girl so she can orgasm you are doing it wrong. If you are going to fuck her for forty minutes there better be multiple orgasms on both sides. I got other things to do.

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Yeah right. But you're NOT offering any opinions on how to do it right. You're just flaming without bringing any value at all. Since you're not bringing in any worthwhile reason or logic, that's just plain nagging.

Majikal provided value and cited his reasons why he thinks my opinion is bullshit. I did the same. We argued with logic. You didn't.

Next time, argue like man.

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Lol let's use my powers of logic to be a real man.

I back Magikal on his points. That's all.

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In short, you cannot reason for yourself and stand up against opposition.

Do yourself a favor. Pay Majikal $2,000 for some superb coaching service so you can become a man, bust your approach anxiety, and shoot your testosterone up the roof so you can last a minimum of 21 minutes of pussy pounding fun.

And stop selling your products here. Some noobs are gullible and still cannot differentiate between a keyboard jockey effeminate virgin from men who slay pussy on the regular.

Clue: Real men are logical and can stand on their own. They also have enough drive and energy to fuck for more than 2 minutes and do a lot more things on the side.

You're just a low testosterone, nagging guy who does not have enough drive and energy to make women happy. Your mediocrity is NOT appreciated.

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Dude there is nothing wrong with you apart from the fact that you are ashamed of yourself

If you are cool then she is cool
everyone is just as fucked up and neurotic as you are trust me

It was your opportunity to be the man, when she said she was afraid of being loose you could have burst out laughing and said that's ridiculous, you have no idea how attractive I find you etc. and build her up

laugh it off bro, laugh it off, just be like oh well I guess my batteries need a recharge and use you fingers or just kiss massage and caress her to make her feel really good until you're ready to go again

these things happen. If I am sexually active I can go forever without coming but if I've gone a week or two without sex then I need to be careful. It's natural. Suck it up. Laugh it off, make it funny with self depricating humour or blame her for being too sexy. You can say you've been out of the game for a while if you need to. Anything is cool as long as you are cool. Anything is awkward as long as you're awkward.

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