Approach every situation where you're just gonna sit back and see what happens. Stop sending text messages

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What he said both times! Hahaha I had to quote this shit was too funny! Ahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahaha GL bruh! Hope it works out! =]

Thx Guys.
I kept it relatively short, said that I had fun last friday and that she shouldnt stress herself that much.

That's not what I advised, but ok
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she knows that I meet other women ..
mentioning it again would be to obvious
but shes not that jealous typ

Replace the word "meet" with "dating" or "seeing".

Its very clear in my language what I ment.

It just feels so wrong just texting her such a short and "cold" message after she opened up to me and showed her feelings. Wouldnt it be better so discuss this feelings and give her advice and just write back in the same way she wrote her text?

I just dont know.
If I dont care about her in the text .. maybe another guy does it.
And maybe one day she texts me "I have a boyfriend now. He really cares ..."
It just feels wrong :/

being a place for her to dump her emotional baggage is not attractive. she'll end up friend zoning you because you're a "really good listener" and "always has time to talk about my feelings"

You're building rapport without attraction.

She is going to text you one day with "i have a boyfriend. He really cares" but it will only be to tell her best friend that she's found somebody.

You came on here asking for advice. Then you ignored every bit of advice and just decided to be an emotional tampon instead. Why should we bother replying to you if you're just going to ignore what we said and do exactly what we told you NOT to do.

Be humble. Accept that right now, you suck with women. Accept that I and the veteran posters on here have been in your position over and over again and made the same mistakes you're making right now. Your behaviour is deeply rooted in fear. Fear of losing this one girl. Your one-itis. Fear that she will suck another guy's dick just because you didn't suck up to her emotions.

You will never improve with women if your attitude is "I know best"

^^ This should be stickied and used on every thread this happens in (which is a lot of them).

Slow clap to you, sir.

C'mon .. I just expressed my concerns and wanted to hear some convincing and calmings arguments.
I know that I dont "know best"
And I didnt ignore your advice.
Me text would never have looked that way without you guys.

What do you advise for "how often do I ask her for a date" ?
The last two times she asked to do something.
Do you think thats my turn now to suggest a date?
I always feel kind of needy if I ask her and she has no time ...

There should be canned responses available for people once they get to a certain number of posts.
Who runs these boards?

You don't need to ask for date! Come on man, it's 2014. Just make plans to drink with friends and say you'll be out drinking at Bar X on thursday from X'oclock if she wants to join or something casual like that. Then you can run game and escalate from there. I've slept with between 150 and 200 women and I have never once asked a woman out on a date. At first before I knew game I was too shy to ask, then by the time I started improving socially I never felt the need to ask, I just "rolled' with whatever casual vibe was going on with the girl and kept rolling with it until we were in bed and getting naked. Massive part of game is being really relaxed and "letting sex happen" by relaxing enough to get the girl in your bed.

You can take her out to dinner. Just wait until after she's already sucked your dick at least once before.

Its not that bad at the moment ...
Most of the time she initiates texting and we see us once per week.
But still not exclusive.

I have some tests the next 30 days and cant deal with negativ emotions at the moment ..
But when this month is over, I really have to tell her that I really enjoy our time, but that I cant handle this current situation any longer.

Or what else should I do?
I cant go on like this forerver or until she finds a bf somewhere else.

What do you guys think about hiding some chocolate she likes with a little note on it in her house next time I meet her and texting her the next day "I think I forgot my whatever at your place. Can you just check spot X"?

Fancy, cute and creative or creepy, needy and beta?