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n2thevoid
PostPosted: Wed Jul 16, 2014 7:26 am 
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Dude I was straight up yolked. I was 230-240 with abs. Everyone knew me because I was I was so jacked and got comments everyday about it.

However I had 5 girls at the same time when I was 190lbs with abs and hair. I'm thinking about doing that again with a hair transplant just because I remember being so happy like that.
If your self esteem is construed externally (validation) then its shaky as hell to begin with. Work on yourself, if you're working out or getting a hair transplant to receive compliments or get noticed, you're doing it for the wrong reasons. You were "happy" for the wrong reasons (you felt it was getting you attention rather than feeling good about your accomplishments for their own merits).
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Some women are into The Rock. I'd be afraid the whole date that he was going to rape me very painfully. If you're that big, just my opinion, make sure you come across as more "in touch with your feelings" or something. Don't act super, hyper masculine and bellow obscenities at your buddies across the bar. Don't tell your date that you're going to destroy her in the bedroom. Do become a fan of Jack Johnson or something.
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Women are shallow about guys just like you are shallow about hot women. They like money, status, and of course muscle. It doesnt have to be over the top, just be fit.
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Being an enormous meathead is one thing, but I know from personal experience that the first impression i gave off walking into a bar/club/house party/wherever as 5'9" 130lbs vs 5'9" 175lbs is night and day.

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I catch women looking at my arms and chest all the time, it's funny and can be used as a great opener "I'm not a piece of meat with arms and legs, jeez!"

Contrasts are great. If you're a muscular guy, show your sensitive side often, don't exhibit hyper masculine traits it'l make you come off as awkward and too intense/intimidating. Learn to cultivate your sensitivities, allow ppl to see it; nothing more attractive than a guy who isn't afraid to be vulnerable (goes for anyone).
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Being an enormous meathead is one thing, but I know from personal experience that the first impression i gave off walking into a bar/club/house party/wherever as 5'9" 130lbs vs 5'9" 175lbs is night and day.
You probably present yourself differently because your mentality was stronger when bigger.

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