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PostPosted: Thu Oct 17, 2013 1:24 pm 
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There will be no sex, both of us never done it before(religious matters for me, she just wants to wait and do it with a boyfriend that she will be with him enough time, 18 years old if you ask).

I won't tell her how I feel, but she already told my friend that she knows for sure that I love her.


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Jesus isn't real.


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Its fine, I don't belive in Jesus.

I'll be glad to get a serious answer :)


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There will be no sex, both of us never done it before(religious matters for me, she just wants to wait and do it with a boyfriend that she will be with him enough time, 18 years old if you ask).

I won't tell her how I feel, but she already told my friend that she knows for sure that I love her.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 20, 2013 11:04 am 
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I would really appriciate some help here.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 20, 2013 10:22 pm 
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If that's the case, you will do your thing and she will do hers.
Just follow the flow and treat her as your girlfriend even if she isn't.
If she is ready to go with you that far with no sex, then she's a keeper.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 20, 2013 11:29 pm 
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Should I hide my feeling or continue acting as usual even if it's obvious that I love her that way?

It's really confusing, on one hand, I know that I shouldn't let her know my feeling to her, to make her thinks she isn't that important for me. On the other hand, she KNOWS what I feel, and as confident male I should... start doing moves, doesnt I?


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 7:20 pm 
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Should I hide my feeling or continue acting as usual even if it's obvious that I love her that way?

It's really confusing, on one hand, I know that I shouldn't let her know my feeling to her, to make her thinks she isn't that important for me. On the other hand, she KNOWS what I feel, and as confident male I should... start doing moves, doesnt I?

Umm... I would appriciate some help here.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 9:28 pm 
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Dude!

Listen to me, this is what you gotta do. Next time you see her and she starts flirting with you, grab your balls and man up! start touching her, is she plays along, grab her and kiss her, look at her in the eye like a man don't be shy, if she continues to play along start touching her more and make her horny (remember, don't be shy).
If she continues to play along, take her to your or her place and fuck her.
if she gets mad or pissed off, move on, she's not for you and she's just a hassle.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 10:11 pm 
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I've been in the SAME situation. Know a girl for 9 months, last months got close and we kissed and did other stuff but no sex.

DO NOT tell her about how you feel about her. That will drive her away from you.

I'm sorry, but you either have to proceed with that "friend with benefits" and have sex with her, or you have to move on and remove her from your mind. It's also possible that if you have sex with her, relationship talk will pop anytime and she will start the talk, not you.
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Eric, just push her away. Not to hard, but just enough to make her follow you. You need to make her wanting you. That starts by making her following you. Be cold and distant, but not too much! Just enough to frustrate her.

Have you kiss her yet?


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 10:25 pm 
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I didn't kiss her yet.

By let her follow me you mean just to be "hard to get"?
It's opposing the previous tip, to "grab my balls" and start touching her more, isn't it?

Oh, another question I was always thinking about,
Does I need to neg her more than flirtting or the opposing?
It's happen when sometimes she says something like "It'll be so funny if me and Eric will marry/live together"(Cuz we are so different), or someone says "You two can be a great couple", should I... flirt and say "we will be the best couple ever" or something like that, or "I'll be with her? In her dreams!"?
I didn't think about that too much before, but now when I know she knows I love her... it's kinda more complicated.

Thank on the help, I really need it.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 11:14 pm 
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well you have two choices.

first is you grab your balls and might scare her because not smooth.

second is you make her wanting you and yes, you play the hard to get.
But most of all, you need to start looking for someone else even if you don't want to.

She's been your friend for too long.
Neg her if you have the opportunity, but you don't have to.

If someone says you would be a great couple, this is bad for you. You don't want this to happen. Take every comment like this and over exagerate it, specially if it comes from her.

"It'll be so funny if me and Eric will marry/live together"
your reply should be: "yeah so funny that I would kill myself after the first day" (well... maybe not as strong as this, but you get my point; you can add a neg as well, but don't be harsh").

"You two can be a great couple"
your reply should be: "yeah sure. Like Barbie and Ken. Bored to death. No thanks."

I know you are not as crazy as she is. But love makes you do stupid things. And I think you should have fun. Make her want you, that's how you'll get her. Try to reach her jealousy. Play with her. Act like if you want to eat her. Act like if you were going to, but go away from her just after her. Sorry to say dude, but you are still in A2 after all this time.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 11:32 pm 
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Thank man... This is REALLY not me, but I guess that the only way.

Can you just explain the two last sentances?
"Act like if you want to eat her. Act like if you were going to, but go away from her just after her."

And A2- what is it?


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 24, 2013 9:43 am 
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That means: act like if you were going to kiss her (enough to make her think you might), but do not kiss her. Try to entertain this tension inside her. She needs to want to release it by kissing you.
Forget about your needs! Forget about your envy. In fact... I would suggest to forget about her; and she'll come to you.

Here you'll get more info about A2

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credit: Mystery.


But seriously... it's been too long now. If you see a chance, you're both alone together and you feel an opportunity; then do not think and kiss her. Surprise her.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 24, 2013 4:20 pm 
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Umm... Thank on the help man, but I'm even more confused now lol

To kiss her or not?
At the beggining I understoond that I should be almost unavailable to her, my time is expensive, showing almost no interest in her, make her jelous. And If we are together, act like I were going to kiss her but then stop(which happened sometimes, as I said there were situations that if she was any other girl I would kiss her).
But after that I understand that if I have a chance, and we are sitting together, I should just kiss her, no thinking and no games.

And does all of these tips will work even if she sure about my feeling to her?

I'm really appriciating this help, it's really important for me.


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