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Good points
What I actually did say is that I fear the relationship will end, and that it doesn't have to do with her, it's just that I have a fear of the unknown. I told her straight up "I don't know how it would end. I really can't imagine you going for another guy, and I know you love me. Same goes with me. I guess I'm afraid that, for whatever unknown event, things won't be the same."
To me, that translates to "I'm afraid of losing you. Not because I'm not good enough, or because you're not good enough, but because of a weakness within myself that I just have a negative view on relationships."
Look around you - how many guys in ltr's (around the world) do you know never have concerns/show sincerity? I think it's an unrealistic ambition to make ourselves perfect and completely unphazed by anything. Of course I can repeat in my head "If I break up with his girl, who cares! I can easily get another" and yes, that is true for most guys. But to me that's very besides the point. Getting another girl is easy...anybody can do it. Keeping one requires work.
I feel like if what you want is a long lasting (monogamous?) relationship with this person, then you should continue to delve beyond the theories of gaming.
This brings up issues of fidelity and contingency in our society which are more
complex and serious than gaming. The reason you are consistently thinking that
your relationship will end is because of the perception our society feeds us - that
marriage is an easily canceled contract. e.g. Hook up today, shag another person
tomorrow, no consequences; Hollywood.
From a conservative point of view, if you genuinely want to completely stop gaming
and take up the lifestyle of being with this person your entire life, then there must
be
Moral commitments.
Personally, I believe there not only is there a lack of communication between
couples in many relationship, but also a need to communicate important values
within the society we live in.
(Side note: I developed my thoughts after reading an essay by well-known
conservative David Brookes in his essay titled "The Power of Marriage". It is
supposedly an essay on gay marriage, but I glazed over that and saw that similar
problems also exists in heterosexual relationships.)