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so is it a good idea to try to pick up these girls or no?
Always a good idea to try to pick any girl up..

As long as you do it smoothly, clandestinely (don't make a scene and don't scare her) and without a lot of pressure which can cause problems. Know when to back off as well.

If nothing else, you're building social proof, and staying out of the gay/AFC zone.

Just remember, you're gaming managements girls who are considered bought and paid for. Not right, but that's just the way it is. So always be prepared for negative attention.

I've gotten the boot out of a couple of bars in my time for cultivating relationships with the help. I got booted out of a couple of others for not cultivating a relationship with the help. :lol:

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Whats the harm in trying? The worst thing that happens is, well... nothing. Then you move on. Maybe you waste (or learn from) 5 minutes of your life, so be it. I number-closed a Hooters waitress with a boyfriend that talked to me for a good 2 hours after I finished eating. I haven't talked to her since, but she is 22 (I'm 19) and can get me beer when I need it. Really, there is nothing to lose here.

But as said, DON'T tip more than you normally would.

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I am talking about picking up girls who work at like hollister and abercrombie and shit


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I am talking about picking up girls who work at like hollister and abercrombie and shit
No difference..

Same rules apply..

Direct approach..

Get her to an isolated part of the store, and ask her what's she's doing later..

If she says nothing, tell her you'll pick up at closing time, or n-close, etc..

If she says she's busy, tell her you are too but you might be available that weekend, etc..

If she says get lost, your a f..kin' loser. Tell her to have a nice day..

[/b]Indirect approach..[/b]

Ask for her help, or make eye contact with her, smile and look for IOI's. Then follow the advice above.

Never hurts to flirt with her while she's helping you. And if there's a young guy working with her you can use him as a pivot/wing. Remember alpha body language, and make sure your stories better than his. Treat him like your little brother or something.

Since you're the customer you've already established DHV. Some girls wont be impressed, especially the more immature ones or the less adventurous ones.

Chicks that work in these places want to get gamed. Take my word for it. They just want somebody who isn't going to make a spectacle, and somebody that's not crude. And remember if nothing else you're building social value that will come in handy in the future if operating around the same social circle, area, etc.. You may even see one of these girls again out clubbin', etc.. and they will say to their girlfriends;

"oh that's that happening guy that used to come in the store".

Yep, that's me.. :)

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In that case, go for it. Again, what is there to lose? I work at Abercrombie, so I know how the girls are that work there. Most of the time they are bored out of their mind, especially if they are watching a room. I'd say the workers at Abercrombie (at least around here) are more stuck up than the ones at Hollister. I've worked at Hollister a few times, and they are usually more cool about being friendly.

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In that case, go for it. Again, what is there to lose? I work at Abercrombie, so I know how the girls are that work there. Most of the time they are bored out of their mind, especially if they are watching a room. I'd say the workers at Abercrombie (at least around here) are more stuck up than the ones at Hollister. I've worked at Hollister a few times, and they are usually more cool about being friendly.
Depends a lot upon the guy, huh Firebird..

I don't care where you're at, if you're a happening guy and have a decent game chicks are going to notice you. And they're going to want to find out a little more about that action.

You need to make it clear from the gitgo, that 'action' is what you're all about. In a socially smart way.

It takes patience, and being somewhat indirect. You don't want anyone but your target to know what's really going on. Or at least not be able to prove it. Until there is really something going on and your fully a part of her social circle.

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There are tactics you can use to work up to the direct game.

Follow the Outer Game url in my signature and go to 'Other Techniques'. Look for 'Hired Guns'. You will get a better idea of what to do.

I know there are also many good threads on 'Retal Sarging' but you will have to read a few noise threads to find it. Use search..

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Simply put a hired gun is a women hired to work someplace based on her looks...

While the typical waitress, bartender, dancer thing fits into that so do girls who work in retail, girls who work in odd services (like car wash). Basically if you see a hot girl working somewere, assume that she got the job because shes hot, then after talking to her you can decide if you were wrong and shes actually intelligent and qualified to be werever she is.

Like some of the other guys pointed out, and its really the complete PUA concept, BE DIFFERENT. Every other guy gets intimidated by her or cat calls her, or worse buys shit from her they didnt want.

Look for the unconsious IOI's and lay in harder with negs and disqualifying her. DHV doesnt take a back burner here but its extra important not to try to show off (as almost every guy she deals with trys this).

Number close or get her out of the venue, once you seperate her from her work her IOI's will hold more weight as they will not be meant to con you into buying something.

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girls who work at these abercrombie and hollister stores, they wanna be hit on/picked up, am I correct?

seems like a pretty shitty job otherwise, I hate going into the stores, the job is incredibly boring, pay is mediocre from what I hear

do these chicks work there to try to meet fun/sexy guys?


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girls who work at these abercrombie and hollister stores, they wanna be hit on/picked up, am I correct?

seems like a pretty shitty job otherwise, I hate going into the stores, the job is incredibly boring, pay is mediocre from what I hear

do these chicks work there to try to meet fun/sexy guys?
All heterosexual chicks want excitement and attention. And fun/sexy guys.

Doesn't really matter where they work.

Delivering such attention to them in a classy, indirect and discreet manner in your challenge.

It's not hard, just detach yourself from the outcome (in case there isn't any), be patient (be willing to advance and escalate in small steps), and make yourself available to them outside the store.

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Depends a lot upon the guy, huh Firebird..
Wha? I don't understand what you mean...

The only reason I wanted the job at AnF was to get the discount. Now I have the discount and haven't worked in 5 weeks, so its a win-win situation for me! The pay is min. wage, and the hours are very little a week. So bring that up in convo, ask them if they get many hours and go from there. If they do get a lot of hours, neg them by saying they must kiss the management's ass or something.

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Depends a lot upon the guy, huh Firebird..
Wha? I don't understand what you mean...

The only reason I wanted the job at AnF was to get the discount. Now I have the discount and haven't worked in 5 weeks, so its a win-win situation for me! The pay is min. wage, and the hours are very little a week. So bring that up in convo, ask them if they get many hours and go from there. If they do get a lot of hours, neg them by saying they must kiss the management's ass or something.
Relax, I wasn't talking about you..

I was talking about the clientèle being able to pick up the help.

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There is no need to think about this. Neg her, make fun of her, show some interest, and assume everything she does or says is an IOI. Call her on it, its called flirting. She says that shirt would good on you, say 'slow it down casanova, do ou usually come of this strong?' If you think, you lose, so just do it

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Depends a lot upon the guy, huh Firebird..
Wha? I don't understand what you mean...

The only reason I wanted the job at AnF was to get the discount. Now I have the discount and haven't worked in 5 weeks, so its a win-win situation for me! The pay is min. wage, and the hours are very little a week. So bring that up in convo, ask them if they get many hours and go from there. If they do get a lot of hours, neg them by saying they must kiss the management's ass or something.
Relax, I wasn't talking about you..

I was talking about the clientèle being able to pick up the help.
Alrighty, I didn't think I was being too stiff, just confused on what was said.

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There is no need to think about this. Neg her, make fun of her, show some interest, and assume everything she does or says is an IOI. Call her on it, its called flirting. She says that shirt would good on you, say 'slow it down casanova, do ou usually come of this strong?' If you think, you lose, so just do it
You better think, or get her out of there quick..

You got to be somewhat discreet. Remember she's got a rep and she's getting paid.

Been my experience that management is real keen on guys trying to pick up their paid employees. A lot of these places have had rather bad experiences with younger female employees and customers, other employees and/or managers. Heck sometimes the manager, or other helps banging her too. But if this is the case normally she wont appear on the make in front of them especially. The customer then becomes the outsider. Just someone to be exploited. Like a bar in many ways.

Want to blow the CB'ing power mad assholes out of the water? Draft a letter and send it to their home office explaining something similar to their FU behavior towards a loyal customer. I did this once and it went from passive aggressive presumptuous place, to a place that was kissing my ass in no time flat. :lol: Only trouble was, all the hotties suddenly disappeared replaced by an old hen that was apparently on the rag all the time. :roll:

Not hard to figure out why, the girls are normally held in contempt, especially by AFC managers who keep wondering whey they aren't getting any. They also don't make the schedule.

Of course the other option is lay 'em out on the floor for interfering with your social opportunities, but I don't recommend this.

And they'll get rid of her in a N.Y. minute if the perception is she's easy or involved with the customers. Just the way it is. Especially true down south. Some companies believe in freedom for their employees, most believe in treating them like some sort of detainee at Guantanamo or something. The younger the employees the more you get the Guantanamo complex. And alot of these chicks are quite young and inexperienced.

And the smaller the place, the worse it is.

Think secret society, and make sure you do your best to keep it a secret. :wink:

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