LOL. Oh wow hooks. That's a good one. Well, first I'm curious . . . is there a chance you will see her again, say . . . tomorrow? If so, don't call, but ask her for her number when you see her.

If there's not a chance of that, you could call and tell her you had gotten extremely busy, and that seeing her reminded you that you had her number. Then, you can tell her it's a good thing for her that you hadn't gotten around to cleaning out your phone in a while. I mean, honestly, how many of us don't clean our contacts out for months? Hell, I haven't cleaned mine out in about a year, lol. I take one or two out here and there and get busy with something/someone else.

That should work well for you. I still contact girls that have been in my phone that I honestly have no idea who they are anymore. I send them a message asking if they can refresh my memory. Sometimes it works and we have a cool convo. Other times they think it's creepy, so I know to delete it, lol.

So, anyway, back to your question, sorry about the tangent, that should do the job for you. I'd go ahead and contact her too. Tonight. Especially if she was giving you those eyes. Tell her she burned that image into your brain. Then she will probably ask if that's a good thing or a bad thing. You take it from there.

YOOOO im back, back from exile...been hitting the books hard... you still owe me a sarge in the burgh! how are things man?

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Hey man. Good to see you back! Hope the studying is going well for you. Things are going great here. Is your brain fried yet from the books? lol. Hey, I'm up for a sarge anytime. Gets the blood flowing!

Tripp, you are golden my man. While I was reading what you wrote, I dialed her number, and proceeded to give her the business. She definitely lapped it up, and also threw in some ST's in the process.

Me: You are one lucky girl, I usually delete numbers out of my phone at the end of the month.

Her: You get so many phone numbers from girls, that you have to have a phone cleaning date, huh.?

Me: What can I say, I am such an impressionable guy, with a laugh of course.

Me: So what have you been up to, while you were missing me?

Her: With a very precarious laugh, and response, I 've been doing the usual. School, work, and stuff.

Me: Oh, I have been up to the same. Reframe: Have you ever been to Dave and Busters?

Her: Yeah, but I haven't been in a while though. Reframe again

Me: you know after you left, guys were coming up to me asking me who you were. I told them, that you were indeed trouble, and they should stay clear of you. If you swing your hair to right, she may give you a head nod, but if it's left cross to the other side.

Her response, immediate laughter and playful banter. Lasted for about six minutes, and then we hung up, to settle things at a later date.

Once I start writing, I can't stop.

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Awesome hooks. Did you doubt me? lol. Glad to get the update man. Thanks.

Tripp, never as to why I asked you in the first place, bro.

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i lust for jessica alba, but now since she is preggers. I am lusting for Nicole!!! It's New Year's Day. It was Ben Franklin who said, "Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man."

Do you really actually ever say 'Come here, now,' to people? That sounds so much ruder than 'Come here a moment,' which is what I'd say. That signature's been bugging me since I first saw it.

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LOL, actually, yes I do. Quite frequently.

Update: I high fived a chick at the Subways, but it wasn't the one making the sandwich (target).

You know how sometimes they have two people making the subs and cashing out? Yeah I got assembly lined, and so when the cashier chick gave me a big cup for water instead of the small plastic ones, I said "HIGH FIVE!" and stuck out my hand.

She slapped it, but it was a little unexpected (no real transition as I didn't bother to chat her up first) and awkward. Target chick was about 5 feet away helping another customer.

Need analysis: Was this a + or - for the target chick? + or - for the cashier (who I high fived)?

Also, can I repeat this the next time I go get a sub without looking like some kind of HIGH FIVE creep? I do enjoy my subs and don't want them to get a restraining order out on me!

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LOL, well they're not gonna get a restraining order on you. And, if you do it with the right attitude, then no, you won't come across as a creep. If it's as a reward, as in this case it obviously was, then it's not creepy. If you just go in, smile real dorky, put up your hand, and expect them to high five . . . lol that's a bit creepy.

It was a plus for the cashier, since you rewarded her.

As for the target . . . did she SEE this? Did she pay attention to what happened? If so, then yeah, you could say that was a plus. If not, then it didn't really matter as far as she was concerned . . . UNLESS the cashier talks positively about you later, which you won't know until you're back in there.

Tripp, I have another question sir.


Cellphones, ipods, and other technology obstacles. At the university, job, and mall many hot girls all the time are on one or the other. My question.

What is a good way to get them, to stop focusing on the tech, and onto me?

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i lust for jessica alba, but now since she is preggers. I am lusting for Nicole!!! It's New Year's Day. It was Ben Franklin who said, "Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man."

Stand in front of her, look her straight in the eye, and make really weird face . . . once she starts laughing, you're in. Then tell her you've got an important issue to discuss. When she asks what . . . ask whether or not a cell phone is a good thing for her. LOL, that would actually work on some girls, believe it or not.

Or, you could stand in front of her, hold your phone to your ear, and say, loud enough for her to hear, "yeah, I'd ask her if she'd get off the phone long enough for me too." If you're loud enough for her to hear, that should catch her attention.

Honestly, the cell phone thing is a tough one.

Now, the ipod . . . tap her on the shoulder and ask what's she's listening to. Then you can tell her that band isn't any good

As for the other tech stuff, like the iphone, I haven't seen people obviously using that around here, YET.

Aha, thanks alot bro. I like the standing in front of her, and staring at her seriously, and just doing something like riverdancing or something off the radar as such. The cellphone thing is very tricky, and I have been trying to devise a good way to get the results I am looking for with this tech obstacle.

Of course, the ipod thing is not that difficult to breakdown. In fact, i have done that before, and it usually goes down easy.

Thanks alot bro. More interesting questions to come from me.

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I'm fairly new at the game and all I know SPAM is from online articles and online forums like this. I don't really feel like I have a strong base from the material I've had so far so I'm going to get a couple books. What 2 books would you recommend most(not including the game) for a relative newb who wants a good overview of everything with a good amount of depth into each topic?

Excellent question. My first and MAIN recommendation is the Venusian Arts Handbook which explains in detail the Mystery Method. You can search online to find it, or pm me and I will help you find it.

A second book I would recommend to get you started would be something by David DeAngelo about Cocky and Funny, or C & F. Those two pieces will give you a huge head start.