I'm not really sure how to tell when a girl is testing me and how to pass those tests. Could really use some examples if you can think of any. Along with advice on how to pass them.

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I am going, to be honest, and tell you that I haven't been paying attention to any tests. I have a goal in mind and I focus on the goal. The more you look for "shit tests" the harder your brain will work until you finally freeze yourself up. Girls like confident men. I give them that. I like them. I will show them. No little "test" will distract me from that.

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For me "shit tests" are either one of two things:

1. The girl is being standoffish- Some girls are a little reluctant to being approached, especially if they've had guys try and get in her panties all night.

2. Flirting - A lot of guys advocate a cocky/funny persona. When a girl teases back, guys see it as an attack on their masculinity. Maybe girls in the US or whatever are less sarcastic, but teasing back is the right thing to do.

The difference between 1 and 2 is down to your perception. In particular how you flirt back in 2 is do something that fits your style.

This is because you have a lot of confidence. Shit tests are IMO better called "confidence" tests. "Why me?/ when did you have sex last time?, That girl is hot!, etc" A guy that lacks confidence will look to give answers that he thinks are polite, sweet, etc.

Last date a girl made a comment about a girl having a nice butt. I literally did not see her, but i said "next time you see a nice girl butt you tell me in time so we can enjoy it both". She loved it. My old self would have said some corny shit like "i only care for your butt" )

I was watching a video of David Wygant and Mehow where they were breaking down one of David's infield footage. And in one part David asked the girl why she was waking up with bruises. She said "wouldn't you like to know". He brushed it off by saying "I don't know, you tell me". They said that was a test.

At one point she also said "oh look I spilled something on my boobs". They said most guys would respond to that, but it's better to just brush it off.

I guess an alpha male is use to having sex all the time so he's not as likely to fall for her traps (tests). Instead he just brushes them off. But not all tests are sexual, and it's the non-sexual tests that I'm concerned about the most. I just want to get better at spotting these tests so I don't fall for them.

One time I was working at a restaurant and about four of us (2 guys, a girl, and myself) would always take our breaks at the same time. We would always sit together in a booth and eat supper. One day the girl told me to come sit with her on the other side of the restaurant, just the two of us. I was interested in her and she knew it. What guy wouldn't want to go sit alone with a girl he's interested in rather than sitting with the whole group? It felt like a test to me. It also felt rude of us to sit separate from the group when we always sit with them. So while I was sitting with her I couldn't help but think "I failed this test". Honestly, I'm not even sure if it was a test, but I sure felt like one.

I'd still like to hear more examples of tests so I can get better at spotting them if anybody has any.

Scroll up and read what Mr. Assertive wrote. That's all you need.

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While not good to focus on, "tests" are real. Women poke my buttons all the time to see what I'll do, and I'm aware of it. Admitting this exists is different than being consumed by it, Mr.A.

@OP - don't take it seriously and realize what a test is. She's poking your buttons like a little girl, keep mentally rock solid and cool. Why they do this, though, and the types to poke buttons often, and the hot skeptical women deserve a whole other topic IMO.

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In my opinion shit tests are a made up subject. They don't exist.

I used to make them real when I was starting off and it was one of the most daunting,self created obstacles in my path.
Then I did as Mr Assertive here explained. Life got a lot easier, and results improved significantly, since I stopped shooting my own self in the leg.

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With experience, shit tests are nothing but a bunch of BS "sexual compatibility" tests, so you learn to ignore them. The question is, is there chemistry between you and the girl? regardless of topic on conversation, see if there is any rapport. If there is go for it, if not, just move on.

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