alright im fucked

im 19 and a virgin it sucks ya.... ive been talking to this girl a lot and its getting sorta serious. anyway she was talking about how she hates guys that dont kno wwhat there doing and how she always has to teach her boyfreinds and shit..

well she asked me if i was a virgin and i said no lol, but i am..

be honest am i fucked? and not literaly... if i read a lot of books practice idk watch alot of porn and practice stamina. is it going to be blatantly obvious that im a virgin? am i in trouble? ((((((((

Maybe. If it becomes apparent and she calls you on it, just lie to her and say you only did it once. Technically you wouldn't be a virgin, and it won't seem too unreasonable. She might still be disappointed, though.

There are two kinds of virgins: one that nuts way too fast, and one that goes forever. Let's hope you're the second one, lol!

Blow your load once or twice before you see her. You'll last a lot longer. Also, don't be shy when you're having sex with her. You're the man, so she expects you to take the lead. Dominate her - her body is your playground. If a position doesn't feel comfortable to you, then don't feel afraid to move her legs around until it does. Don't worry - she'll comply. This isn't a porno, so don't feel pressured to switch positions every two minutes. Variety is good, but you don't want to mess up the flow too often. Don't bang her like a jackhammer, either. You can if you want to do it rough, but feel free to kick down the speed once in a while. Just enjoy the experience. If you try too hard in the beginning, you might tire out too quick.

Give her some good oral beforehand, and she might not even notice if you don't do well. I wrote it out in another post, but I'll write out what I do here - the girls I've done this to say they really liked it. I'm sure others will have their own techniques. Go with whichever one you like:

Tell her to lie down and close her eyes. Put her legs up in the air, and start nibbling on her inner thigh. Alternate between each thigh, all the time moving closer to the pussy. Then you make one deep, vertical lick up the lips. Wait a second or two (teasing)... then stick your finger in. You should have already moistened it up, but pump your finger in once or twice to get the juices really flowing. Stick in your second finger, and do the same. Start making the "come over here" motion with your fingers. Your fingers should be rubbing against the top of the vaginal wall (For God's sakes, trim your nails before you do this). You're basically stimulating the back portion of her clitoris, which rests just above the vaginal wall. Start licking the clitoral hood. You could go straight to the clitoris, but it might be a little sensitive in the beginning. Once she's really getting into it, feel free to go directly for the love bump. With your free hand, you can stroke her body and tits. If you can reach, put your finger near her mouth - she'll probably start sucking on it. If she starts pumping her pelvis in a certain direction, then you start moving your tongue the same way. She's moving in the way that's providing the most stimulation, so you give her what she wants. If you do it right, she should cum pretty quickly.

Hope this helped.

great post thats a lot!!

ya ive read about that technique before im gunna deffly try this..

ive been practising a alot and im good at knowing when im about to come and stopping before for a few seconds and starting again..

idk how well it will work in real sex but i hope it works

Then go with the force, young one.

Oh, another thing: if you come quick on the first go, don't feel embarrassed. People nut fast all the time. Just act casual and try to go again as soon as possible.

idk im gunna be so nervious but im not SUPER into this girl, sounds bad but its kinda try.. so ill do my best and just get any expiernce i can.

you say its NOT rare to blow your load fast sometimes? hmm my best bet is probably alot of fourplay, then oral/fingering, then fuck her

It's not uncommon. Sometimes, people just have an off-day or they're lazy. They'll blow their load real quickly. I've done it a few times. You've got to bounce back from that as soon as possible, and be sure not to act like you failed her; don't act ashamed. Just pretend it's something that's natural. If you can't get it back up right away, just play with her body - that always does it for me.

As I said before, empty the barrel a couple times before you do it so you can last longer, and it shouldn't be a problem. Anyways, don't put so much pressure on yourself to perform. I know it's hard to do, but just look forward to this experience. You're finally becoming a man.

really though, is it most likely she will know im a virgin. shes not slut but she had a serious relationship where she was having sex a bit..

im so scared though, she complains about guys not knowing what there doing to me and how its frustrating to teach them and im just like oh fuck this girls picky?? fuck... listen to this

she asked me if i was a virgin and i said no, then she asked a few more questions, i answered them brilliantly. she asked what i thought of a few positions and i incorporated a few negs in with my answer.

its a bit of a catch 22 though, it made me come across as a guy with experienced and the negs made her fell less experienced then me which would be awesome if i acually had any

so now she thinks im good in bed wdf i fucked myself over........

ONE plus side, she was clearly more attracted to me after i told her i wasnt a virgin, (i dont think she wants another virgin bf)

Aha! One place i might be able to drop a quick advice piece, (brand new to pua and prob the newbest of em all). Ill be working on that though

First point, it was brought up theres 2 kinds, quick nutters and last forever nutters. I cant tell you how worried SICK i was before my first time, i was in a situtaiton like you where i lied about not being a virgin, and ongoing lie for 5years. My whole mind was on nothing but how long i'd try and last. Funny shit, because once we got going i started getting scared that id NEVER nut, and then that prabably made it even harder in the end cuase i was thinking about it to much.
I'd blow a load off before you see her to help out, but just about the worst thing you can do is worry about your performance/how long youll last. It will work against you either way. Also i wouldnt be shy with the oral. That's usually almost gaurantee'd to get her to cum, and as long as you get her once she'll prabably be happy enough.

Second, you said your not into her that much.... So who gives a shit? I know hard advice to follow, i know i sure as hell wasnt able to. But once you get through with her you'll probably be thinking the same thing. So atleast keep it in mind.