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| Hubcap | PostPosted: Tue Jul 11, 2017 12:17 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Oct 21, 2016 11:28 pm Posts: 48 | | I have been at this for a while now and though I don't get to go out as much as I would like, I have made significant improvements of the shy mess I was when I started. I have a wing that helps when I go out and we sometimes get to provide each other feedback though most of the time, it is hard to see/hear everything that happens, as well as remember it later when we leave.
Question I have is has anyone found a female (or hired one) to practice your openers and kino on at home or somewhere outside of the field? I think of it like an athlete practicing his basketball shot before he gets into a game but others have suggested that it's best to just learn in the field by rejections. I've had plenty of those and I have noticed some things I need to work on, but many times, I am still clueless as to what I did wrong. Especially the small details such as stance and tonality.
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| R.C | PostPosted: Tue Jul 11, 2017 6:26 am | |
| Offline | | Ask a mod for a custom title |  | Joined: Thu Oct 13, 2011 1:53 pm Posts: 5428 Location: Romania | | Hiring a girl to practice openers on? I'm not even going to touch on why that's weird, but it's also impractical.
What works for one woman will not necessarily work for the next.
Whenever I see people saying they don't get out as much as they would like I always wonder, do you have people who guy groceries for you? Clothes? Go to work in your stead? Do you literally live like a hermit? Women are everywhere. If I want to go buy a beer chances are I see at least a few girls that I find attractive to a degree.
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| kidfromcro | PostPosted: Tue Jul 11, 2017 9:07 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2016 6:18 pm Posts: 269 Location: pula,istria | | hiring a girl sounds like rsd infields.
if you want to practice as you say stance and tonality then practice it on every girl you talk to,not just some,and notice how she reacts,if she"s uncomfortable,take a step back,change a topic,joke around
also hiring someone would never work for obvious reasons.
i"m guessing,but it seems like you"re trying to find easier way to learn,simply not possible,otherwise everyone would be doing it
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| DJ_Z | PostPosted: Tue Jul 11, 2017 4:56 pm | |
Joined: Tue May 10, 2011 5:53 pm Posts: 2152 Location: Pittsburgh, PA | | First off hiring someone to talk to you won't work because there's no guarantee of genuine reactions. Here's what you do:
1. Pick one thing, just one, even if it's just posture.
2. Go outside to talk to girls and focus on doing that one thing.
3. Repeat until you can do it without much thought.
That applies for both verbal and nonverbal tech. You need to worry less about getting laid and more about developing the skills to get laid. _________________ These hos ain't loyal
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| puaninja | PostPosted: Wed Jul 12, 2017 1:46 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Aug 10, 2012 12:27 pm Posts: 2817 | | Role play can be useful if done right, but the woman has to be a good actress and use real shit tests and verbal queues for you to respond to. She can't just be giggling and say random shit. It's all in the realism of it. _________________ “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn
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