Hung out with this girl on Friday I met through a friend. That night we went out and had a wild make out session. My game was mr. Harmless I wouldnt hurt a fly.The next night she and I slept together and fooled around but didn't give it up. She had my number so we texted a bit she had told me shes was turn on that that night, but her and I both had complicated situations. Today we text and She outsmarted me. Below is where I fucked up. How can I redeem myself before my friends and I go to her city in a few weeks?

Our conversation when it went sour:

Her: Hahahaha amazing! So much swag in Usher. What doesn't kill makes you stronger

Me: Jajajaja hes the best! Talk soon #nomorechasityshorts

Her: Chastity shorts meant too entice yet deny access..rule number of seduction

Me: Second rule of seduction - Appear harmless to your prey When they're comfortable then strike

Her: Third rule: never, under any circumstances, show your full deck of cards or tricks, imagination is the best drug

Me: Touche'!! Definitely a worthy advesory.

*Conversation finished*

If I've ever seen a prime example of overthinking, this has to be it.

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She outsmarted you only because you let it happen. You gave in. That's it.
You could have said like "who said I have shown the full deck..." or something similar, or something better.
Though I wouldn't pronounce that "second rule..." phrase.
But I don't think you fu*ked up. In my experience, you can't fu*k up in only one conversation.
You have to be persistant...
Unless you're really skillful in fu*king up things.
Give her time to forget this and then act from the beginning, as if nothing happened.
Do not redeem yourself, show her who the boss is.
I mean, you don't have to overpower her or enslave her or talk to her "from above"... Nothing should change, but just don't let her be in charge again.

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So you made a slip. Big fucking deal. Move past it like it never happened. The world is round and the place which may seem like the end may also be the beginning.

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She didn't outsmart you, you gave up.

On a sidenote: The mistake you made there was so petty, it wasn't even worth mentioning. Your next text could have been some outlandish shit like "So now that your testicles have dropped, whats your plan for tonight?"

You literally created a problem where there was none.

All the best,

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Don't talk to women about seducing women. Also, your "me harmless" bit is stupid. She should feel some pressure, after all it is called sexual tension. It's not called sexual oh everyone's a-o-fuckin-kay.

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