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| HBhitman | PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:26 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Jan 28, 2008 7:11 am Posts: 114 Location: Oahu, Hawaii | | I did some search on this topic and couldn't come up with anything related to what I'm looking for. Maybe it's not even a question for most people but I'm interested.
Once you've bagged the babe, what's next. I mean, what "zone" are you in now? Where do you go? You don't want to just toss everything out of the window because you want her to continue to be attracted to you so you can take advantage of that attraction in the future. The sex was good. Very good in fact. What I don't want is to get pussy-whipped and let all my game-guard down and be like, "Damn girl. You are freakin' smoking and you are awesome in bed. I gotta have that shit again."
What I'm guessing is that I just need to continue to be non-needy, control my desire to be over-excited and continue to put HER in the awkward zone (not entirely uncomfortable, but awkward) so she doesn't know exactly how I feel or what those feelings mean. Like she knows that I want to get with her again but she doesn't know whether or not she is in control. I may say, "Yeah. I had fun. It'd be nice to do it again sometime." But she doesn't know whether or not I've got other options and/or if I'm going to go out tonight and find another option. Is this solid game? Any other pointers or pitfalls to look out for?
- Monkey
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| newman301 | PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 10:04 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Mar 12, 2008 2:48 pm Posts: 50 | | Always, and I mean ALWAYS just play it cool. Be like "I had a great time with you baby." If she slept over, I'd go out to breakfast with her - it's your call if you want to pay or not at that point. If she leaves after you bang her to go home, it's respectful to call her the next day so she doesn't feel used. Some may argue with this point, but that's what I would do.
But after that next day stuff, that's when the playing it cool comes into play. Wait a few days to call her again. Chances are that she'll probably call you again before you call her anyway (unless she was only in it for a quick one-nighter). Then don't jump at the first opportunity to chill with her again. Have other shit to do (or at least act like you have other shit to do). When you have something cool to do again in a few days, invite her out if you want.
This is of course assuming that you're trying to keep this chick for a little while. Basically, just do what you want when you want to, and by all means don't get whipped.
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| HBhitman | PostPosted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 2:17 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Jan 28, 2008 7:11 am Posts: 114 Location: Oahu, Hawaii | | I am not in a position to start a relationship with any hottie. But I do want to keep the attraction level high because I would like to sleep with her again.
I think your advice rocks.
"Just do what you want when you want". I think that, with the basic PUA formulas and strategies, we're golden.
Thanks amigo.
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