Showing intent from the start is much more powerful than, as R.C. rightfully put it "tricking" women into dating you. If you told her you want to exchange languages without flipping any of the so called attraction switches, you have automatically disqualified yourself from being seen as a potential mate of hers.
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But I called her out on it hard and blocked her on fbusing the excuse that I'm a busy college English teacher and she should grow up and stop wasting my time etc.
You have no idea how butthurt this sounds. Do not do that anymore.
All the best!
SGC_Dave