So this is the average game for me. I get ready to go out make sure I'm looking good I have a confidence oozing off of me when I go out that people love. I get to the bar/party (my usual places) and I have a drink such as an old fashioned or a negroni. I get chatting to people and I pick my target and every time I make friends swap numbers end with new Facebook friends. Usually I end the night with a phone number of a girl I have an interest in and occasionally a kiss close. The big issue I find is maintaining that momentum I seem to struggle to even message some of the people later on because I don't have any idea what to say to them. This is the biggest killer for me. For example I went out the other night and met a 9 and we added each other on Facebook. It's been around a week and I saw her online but I had nothing to say to her, I feel like the conversation would be pretty weak and so I stall and then I tell myself it's been too long it would come off weird if I messaged her now and I'm just not sure how I can translate my going out confidence into messaging confidence.

1. WTF? Why did you think this belongs in the lounge?
2. Why are you wasting your time trying to add girls on Fakebook after the girl is standing toe to toe right in front of your face? That's not ANY kind of 'close' at all.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

To Da,

Thanks for being actually helpful and I heard somewhere the idea is to build up your social circles in general, like just make lots of friends make and female and then you get more opportunities to sarge. I like that information though and I will put that into practice.