Hey, I'm thinking about how to keep girls from other cities interested in meeting up.
It's a girl that i hooked up with at a party, we made out and hanged out for a several hours that night but didn't had sex due to both logistics and me not leading it happening. I told her: Let's go upstairs. -She said no, then bad things will happen. Now later I think if I would just have started walking she would probably join but I stayed in my comfort and kept making out.
So.. Afterwards i snapchatted her and got kind of neutral responses at first. She ignored my snap of a picture and I ignored her sometimes, this kept on for a week or two. I was the one taking initiative for our snaps every time, so i stopped snapping her. A month later I was in her city and snapchatted her something funny, she was pretty responsive and had a good time. I sent some funny snaps over the day.
Finally She wrote: there are more to see in the city than xxx (where i were).
So i answered: Next time I'm here you can show me;)
Her response was just a picture smiling, no text.
(should I have kept pushing for a meeting?)
I got the feeling she was not too into meeting me so I felt it was best for me to let her grow interest for me by playing less interested, so I ignored to answer to that picture. This was about two weeks ago and I haven't made contact since.
She's watching my stories and hopefully I get some DHV from them so she can grow some interest. I got a friend ask her what she thinks about me and she said she thought I was funny (pretty much what i got to know).
Anyone having any tips on how to get this girl interested? I'm having a small one itis for her so I'm thinking to just stop contacting her alltogether (what i've been doing) and just keep posting DHV snapchat stories, and maybe she will contact me. That may be the only way to even get her interested. She's defenitely my type of girl so it would suck if we never met again :/
Cheers
Hammerthor
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