question,

how do you guys deal with the flakers, been trying the online thing, but the flaking is crazy.

I generally tell them i don't care and i have other things to do anyway and then I send nothing anymore.

two things happen:

- they get back into their small talk habits asking me about the weather and god knows what random shit
- they don't say anything at all anymore

in either scenario i find it close to impossible to arrange a meetup after a flake. can it be done + any tips on how or what do you guys do with it.

Don't respond to flakes at all. When they cancel, ignore them. Your attempt at seeming like you're too cool to be upset by it is totally transparent. And online is particularly bad for this so try going outside

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The solution is to ignore the flakes, and work on in-person game.

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Don't listen to the guys that posted above...instead you should ignore the flakes and then talk to girls in real life.

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Lets say you have an interview with Google, but the night before the interview your mom calls up and says she's flying into town and is going to need you to get her from the airport the day of the interview. Then lets say you call google to inform them.. What are the chances you think that they'll accept your response and be open to giving you another interview?

Now lets say its mc donalds and not google this time and the same scenario happen; do you think you would be able to get a second interview if you say please?

Be Google.

Anyone that views themselves as an opportunity will not spend time or energy on anyone that doesn't recognize them and treat them as such. And because people KNOW google is a place of value; they're not going to take their chances playing with them.

Your problem here however is that you're probably not building any emotional connections. Are you getting the girls numbers? Are you calling? Or texting on the dating app about anything other than small talk and lets meet up? If not; what's in it for them to go out with some random guy that could be weird like guys she's met on the site before, or the guys that just tried to get her drunk and bang her? Why not flake? What is the likeliness from both your profile, photos, and conversational skills that you're going to be someone who is actually entertaining to be around?

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Hahaha, I actually had some girls watch the "First Date" from the show Master of None. It dealt with online dating and first date experiences so it was interesting to hear their opinion when the show talked about how guys try to get girls out on dates.


One girl said it beautifully "this one guy said, oh yeah lets hangout" in a mockery tone and she said that the guy didn't show any reason for her to go on a date with him. Like Eddie said, you probably just go for phone numbers and date and you don't bother to give the girl an incentive to go out with you. The incentive is fun, emotional connection, or even sex.


Sounds like you are dryer than the Sahara desert.

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