I disagree, you're telling me you wouldn't be a bit pissed if you were getting blunt, arrogant replies?

'I could do about 7'
'No, 8'
'Well half 7 then'
'No'

It went something like that, cant remember exactly but she wouldn't move from 8, and when she did she was just like, 'ok then'. She gave blunt, 1-2 word answers at least twice. My time is precious and being spoken to like that makes me not want to bother visiting her to begin with, just not worth the time.
As it happens i've since fucked a 20 year old uni student, who was really good in bed and speaks to me properly since the sex. Very eager to meet again and wants to fuck again since I made her cum a lot (and her me)

Nope. Because it's all fun, not serious.


I don't see what the big deal is.



this is why it's pointless to get mad about the first girl.

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I guess you don't get it because you've not spoken to her and dont know what she is normally like.
As it happens she sent a pic last night, a meme saying, 'When you both want to talk to each other but are too stubborn to text first'. Lol. Craving the D again.
Anyway i'm out of it for at least a week with tonsillitis so i wont be smashing anyone

Except you'll lose more women defending your fragile ego. Dominant doesn't mean domineering.

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Lol what are yall talking about... SHE was domineering to him... As it reads he said 7..she said no 8...he said 730..she said no 8 again. How should he have responded..he was compromising.. She wasn't. Please say how he should have responded.

Exactly this. Beginning to think this forum is full of amateur basement dwellers

I was reading over this thread and the thing I don't think you realize is that you started this with her OP. You didn't compromise on the first meet up and how you describe things you don't believe in compromise. You put her in the position of liking you but she doesn't want to feel controlled by you and this was her way of trying to gain some footing.

You have to be smart enough to realize that women will submit to the guys that they like initially but that initial submission is for you to find her attractive. The moment that you start becoming unattractive, which you did, that submission will start to fade.

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That's true.

We can only go by what the men post here. But since most men are emotionally-uncentered, submissive, and don't get laid much, I give out advice based on that reality (IE, the man has poor game).



Looks like you have it handled.

Just look out for anger issues or control issues. If a woman is sassy with you, who cares? There are always more women, as you have proven.

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To be precise, she said she wouldn't be ready at 7 and offered 8. That's important. She wanted to meet, but shit she is an adult. This guy says he doesn't believe in compromise, but really he's just insecure. He is so afraid to cooperate with another human being that even the tiniest detail shakes up his reality.

And if we want to be really honest, 7 is really early so again, maybe he should get a damn job that'll afford him his own transportation

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She didn't "offer" 8...she said "No, 8." "No, 8" is not an offer.
He asked her when she was available, keeping in mind her sleep problem. When she said no 8, he compromised and tried to meet halfway, ie 7:30. When she was adamant again for 8, he even explained to her his restriction.
Asking when she is available = cooperating
Meeting halfway with 7:30= cooperating
Explaining his situation with the buses = cooperating

Jack makes a good point that OP first introduced the non compromising dynamic, and this may be her doing it back to OP. Fine. He shouldve known he got her to compromise once and shouldve done the same for her the next time. He was domineering the first date. She was for the 2nd. From the moment she said 8, he shouldve said ok, taken the 7:30 bus and waited this time. I could give OP more leeway, just because he DID try to compromise to 7:30 and she shouldve dropped the game at that point. He's ASKING her, not TELLING her. And yes, when you dont have a car and take the bus, you gotta at least understand everyone cant meet you at a specific time due to your transportation problem. I'm just seeing that he DID make an effort to meet in the middle and pulled back from the "No, X time" thing.