Is this guy really your friend?
I mean I sometimes will interfere when my friends are trying something but it's in pure fun and all sides know it. I'm not actually sabotaging. In this particular case, the "say please" comment could've been funny and harmless, if it had stopped there.
Your over-the-top sarcasm was a perfect reply to that.
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I told her I was going to a certain club she then shit tested me saying ''thats a pretty lame club'' (while smirking) I jokingly said '' can you even get in''
Get shit tests out of your head. There's no such thing. Your reply here seems forced and defensive. Not exactly a mood booster. Which is what happens when you perceive whatever she says as being tested.
Just keep it light. If you want to be cocky/funny, a comment along the lines of "Sure, until I get there" with a suggestive smile will get the job done. The difference is, the content of that message is about you, and it's an obvious exaggeration meant to be funny. But it's about
you. Your comment was about
her. Out of the two, which do you think is more likely to be interpreted as a personal attack/make you look like an ass?
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'' tell him to shut up ''
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'' she doesn't want to add you''
This is straight up stupid.
Anyway, you started off well and probably would've ended it well if you hadn't had this stupid concept of shit tests that's plaguing this community.
Your friend was of no help either.