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PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2017 12:28 am 
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I went to a restaurant with my friends and there was a hb8 that was working there as a waitress I'm trying to improve my game by approaching as many hbs that I can. It turns out one of my friends knew the waitress my friend is a total afc I don't want to talk bad about him but hes in his mid 20s and has never kissed a girl before and has never went on a date he gets friend zoned all the thime. I don't know if he cock blocked me with the girl or I made a mistake either or I want to know just in case I made the mistake so I can correct it next time.

The waitress approached our table and I started gaming her I first started with a little neg she liked it and kept talking without even taking our orders she kept talking to me and I kept her interested by making her talk about her self and tell me deep stuff right off the bat. I then turned my back on her so I wasn't coming on to strong she left as I walked past her one of the workers that I charmed really liked me and gave me a complimentary drink in front of her.I feel like that may of upped my value any way at the end when we were paying for our dinner I seen my afc friend talking to her she was giving no iois. I walked up to see if shed give me any she gave me so many she started playing with her hair looking down and smiling as she seen me approach. I didn't have time so I wanted to escalate quick I asked her for her facebook I said '' you're pretty cute add me on fb'' (smirking and displaying high value body language) she was about to grab my phone then my friend said ''you're so rude say please'' and then she hesitated to grab my phone. Her body language then became neutral and she said ''ummmm yeah be more polite'' (awkwardly) I didn't know what to say usually girls just add me and I continue to game them from fb (because I have a big social circle of females that are active on my fb showing i'm high value). So I decide to sarcastically be over nice and she started laughing and teasing me she then asked what I was doing later I told her I was going to a certain club she then shit tested me saying '' thats a pretty lame club'' (while smirking) I jokingly said '' can you even get in'' (in a playful way but she may of taken offence to it I'm not good with shit tests) my friend then interrupted again and said '' tell him to shut up '' trying to be the white knight. She looked awkward again I asked again add me on fb and my friend then said '' she doesn't want to add you'' she just looked at me and said add me through your friends fb.

So we left and I told my friend ''bro I think you cock blocked me he was saying no I didn't he then with out me knowing messaged her (to make it up to me even though I didn't really care) and told her to add me she then messaged him back and said ''no he seems like an asshole'' :? she didn't accept my friend request I don't care I just wanna see what went wrong so I can correct it next time i'm still pretty knew my night game is good but day game is pretty bad. :lol:


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2017 7:43 am 
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Is this guy really your friend?

I mean I sometimes will interfere when my friends are trying something but it's in pure fun and all sides know it. I'm not actually sabotaging. In this particular case, the "say please" comment could've been funny and harmless, if it had stopped there.
Your over-the-top sarcasm was a perfect reply to that.
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I told her I was going to a certain club she then shit tested me saying ''thats a pretty lame club'' (while smirking) I jokingly said '' can you even get in''
Get shit tests out of your head. There's no such thing. Your reply here seems forced and defensive. Not exactly a mood booster. Which is what happens when you perceive whatever she says as being tested.
Just keep it light. If you want to be cocky/funny, a comment along the lines of "Sure, until I get there" with a suggestive smile will get the job done. The difference is, the content of that message is about you, and it's an obvious exaggeration meant to be funny. But it's about you. Your comment was about her. Out of the two, which do you think is more likely to be interpreted as a personal attack/make you look like an ass?
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'' tell him to shut up ''
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'' she doesn't want to add you''
This is straight up stupid.


Anyway, you started off well and probably would've ended it well if you hadn't had this stupid concept of shit tests that's plaguing this community.
Your friend was of no help either.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2017 8:13 am 
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You played the game damn near perfectly and had to deal with a jealous "friend." What happened is that he probably made the girl overly conscious of how she reacted to the buttons you pushed. This made her back off and think she deserves a "nice guy" instead of someone who challenges her and is being not "an asshole" but the right type of asshole.

Make no mistake about it, women test men all the time. Your friend, with all his niceness, would have never stood a chance against you. He is very well aware of this and decided to save his ego by ruining your chances too.

Do not doubt yourself, you played a solid game here. The lesson you have learned is to either not take this friend with you next time you are out and if you do, dont game where he can hear it :)

All the best!

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2017 12:41 pm 
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If you want to score HBs that guy shouldn't be your friend. I've always been lucky by having popular, high value friends but if you don't have that luxury it's probably better to game alone.

Also you think way too much, it's normal in the beginning but you should try get to a level where you're constantly and naturally flirting. Analyze briefly, learn from your mistakes and move on.

If you get to that point you won't really care much about friends cockblocking you. And if they do it multiple times they're shitty friends and you should avoid contact.

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