How we got a 25yr old virgin laid in under 3 months (Part 1)

He is a long-term member of this forum. A seeker of "salvation" as he himself put it. A 25 year old good looking guy who, up until he met me and my partner in crime at Social Game Code, had never come close to banging anything else but his own fist. The bloke was frustrated, mad at the world, stuck in some ultra negative mental loops and at twenty-five, still a virgin. To make matters even worse, he had created an entire toolbox of comfort zone material he could spew at anyone who dared to contradict his own often faulty perspectives on gaming, women and inter-gender social interaction in general.

Its as if I stumbled upon him by chance after having seen the man bitch about his situation time and time again in the forum chat. This time however I decided to invite him into our SGC group just to explore the possibility of turning this hopeless case around. I'm gonna be honest here, when I invited him in, I had no idea what we had gotten ourselves into. This was not your average virgin Joe. This man had literally convinced himself that you simply do not need to have sex because...well...it was useless!

Since he had been a member on here for so long, there was little theory that me and Dame could teach him that he did not already know. The real challenge was to remove this dark cloud of negativity from him and actually get him to take action. As a matter of fact, his default setting was that nobody could teach him anything because he had figured life out already. To top it all off, this guy had developed a taste for a very specific type of girl and automatically discarded all other women who did not meet his criteria.

When we first started working on him, it was more arguing with him and making him realize that hey, you haven't figured out shit, you're a phony and a stupid-ass f**k for not listening to two experts who've been doing this for ages and both have three-digit lay counts. As we started to peel off one-by-one all of his backwards preconceived beliefs, we noticed what a strong grip virginity had of this one. As a matter of fact, I recall this one specific time where we had a !!! 4 hour long !!! group call with the man that resulted in a flame war because he refused to move even an inch outside of his comfort zone. The battle had just begun and it was going to be fierce....