I've noticed that using 'text game', it's extremely easy to ruin dates with women. Every little mistake can come off as needy, and since text is only based on logic, and not on emotions, it's much harder to smoothly talk your way out of your mistake.

So if you get a chick's number, and she wants to go on a date. Then, you write a tiny mistake revealing that, for example, you're not 100% in tuned with the 'abundance mentality', and she stops responding come the day of the date - even though in person everything went perfectly smoothly and she was totally into you. What can you write in order to compensate for such a mistake?

I'm thinking about something between, "Ok honey, since you are not answering I'll probably have to enjoy my time without you tonight" and completely ignoring her, only to wait for her to apologize with some lame ass excuse and say that it can never happen again.

Men never compensate or apologize, or feel they need to.

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Get out of your head, lol. You don't need to discuss game with women, or really anything before the date.

Stop texting so much. Use texting to set a firm place and time, then get the fuck off the phone and show up at the date.


That's a desperate, pathetic response. And don't call women "honey" unless you know them. It's weird.

Stop texting.

Just stop. Learn to control your emotions. This woman liked you. You talked her out of it.

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The honey line would not work on anyone because it's so blatantly trying too hard to make her feel like sshe is missing out on something but just makes you sound butthurt.

I sympathise with the difficulties associated with texting though I haven't mastered it yet. My personality relies heavily on incongruent tone of voice to communicate humour.

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You pick up the phone and call them so you can connect directly with them in real time without having to worry about miscommunications. Everything can be handled in the NOW with tone, emotion, and words to boot.

I don't spend too much time texting a girl until I've gotten a good feel for them by talking to them on the phone. The prevents a lot of the generic " How are you/What are you up to" boring conversations that she engages in with her mom and her girlfriends.

However, the most powerful way to display the abundance mentality is to let you actions speak and not your words. Trying to COMPENSATE is a direct reflection of someone who doesn't have abundance. One with abundance wouldn't second and third text; they would just let it go and move onto another.

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A few tips

* Read some good ebooks on interactions with girls. There are a few materials out there focusing on text game, get hold of them. For example I have a PDF freely available from PUATraining.com "The Ultimate Guide To Text Game"

* Another is "A pick up artists guide to Phone & Text game" by Jack Davies and "Elite online dating" by Nicholas Jack also has some good tips (there is some crossover between text game and online dating game)

* Try to make it as fun as possible by text, avoid closed questions. Remember the 48 hour rule, if she flakes do not send another for 48 hours.

* How did you meet the girl? Your text game is a reflection of real life game, if you had a good interaction with the girl in real life she will be more receptive on text.

Let us know how you get on.

Thanks for the resource links

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How old are you? 12?

There's no game in texting.

Like the guy above me said, if you want to ask a girl on a date your best chance is to call her, easier to build rapport and at least show her you have some kind of balls. You should obviously prefer to ask her IRL but if you have no other choice, call her. If she doesn't pick up, leave a message for her to call you back. Easy.

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Exact same thing happened to me the other day. We hit it off, amazing chemistry... I text her the next day, we agree to meet up and go hiking.. then comes the next day, I text her to pick her up.. All I write is "Hey, whats your address, gonna be on my way soon" and NOTHING... 1 day passed and no reply still... but she got on her facebook, and managed to post shit to her wall.. im in the same boat, either come up with a last attempt genius text, or move on...

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Hey Guys i'm 24, i'm fairly new to the community and i'm still learning. I dont know where to start all my
life i've struggled with girls due to my sheness and social anxiety, it wasnt just till girls i found it difficult to nake friends which led to depression and so on.I've been on journey of self-improvement and i've started self help books and reading alot of pua materials online, things posted on here and other books. Although now i've found a bit courage to talk to girl and ask for their phone numbers i struggle to keep the attraction/interest during texting or mess it up while trying to fix a date. I've been in this same situation now for the fourth time where we start talking, the girl seems interested we get to know each other but then slowly it fades off. Also if someone could point out on the timing or when and how to ask on a date would be appreciated. Someone help me, thank you in advance.

Search bar is a thing. And making your own thread for your own specific problems is another thing.

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Also... Also, what are you doing here is a variant of emotional blackmail. Using guilt to drag her to date is not what you want.

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Preferring to call is one thing, but stating there "no game in texting", in 2017, is ridiculous.

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Thank you, I have to remember that more often, 'cause capparently I keep on forgetting that!

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