Hey guys,

I've never been told this before - ask me out when you're free. The girl that I am hitting up on does not have a fixed schedule as her family usually has plans on the weekend and that's when we're usually free. Hence, she told me to ask her out when I'm free and she'll see if she would be free on that day.

I know that there is definitely some intent to go out but am I also a second option in this case?

Well you're definitely not that important to her... girls make time for guys they want to date.

I mean I would avoid weekends also if that's the case... Thursday nights are usually a safe alternative as are Sunday nights. Usually when it comes to dates I aim for weekdays any how as with attractive women they're almost always booked on weekends.

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Hey, thank you for the quick response. I'm afraid that we may not be able to do the weekdays because we're occupied with internship from 830 to 630 - so yeah, we hardly have leisure time apart from Friday where her family would usually go to neighbouring country to spend the weekends there like 8 out of 10 times and be back by the following week.

Previously, I tried to ask her out on the day itself but unfortunately she was booked as she had a showcase to attend to. She said something like "oh damnnn u late, i have a showcase to attend tonight... next time. Because of that, I thought she wasn't interested given her reply (no rescheduling) so I told her not anymore, to which she replied " ".

I wasn't sure if she was genuinely sad or what so I said 'fine, when do you want?' and she replied "next friday?"

So yeah it didn't happen because her family had plans so she told me 2 days in advance. We texted, teased and eventually transited to call - we had lots of laughs and teases, even to the point where she postponed her biweekly school assignments due to the conversation as i told her beforehand that 'i'm sorry this is going to become a few hours conversation between us'. Before we hung up, i asked her if she wanna go out again (2nd date) and was her schedule like the following week which then led to the opening of this post.

I APOLOGISE IF THIS IS RATHER LENGTHY!!

No!

You do not engage in lengthy fucking phone calls with girls, and that goes double for women you aren't banging. Find other women. Always have several plates spinning.

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WHATTT FOR REALZZ WHY THOUGH

A girl is never too busy. She'll cancel her plans or juggle things to be with you. And if she really is too busy, she'll take the initiative to get back to you or reschedule when she has time. But again the attitude is she'll make time. Always remember that.

Oh damn, this is worrying... and thank you, I will!

That is not exactly a truism. You can build a lot of rapport on a lengthy phone call.

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Yeah that's what I was thinking too... as a matter of fact the questions, laughters and teases made me feel that we're like a step ahead now.