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PostPosted: Thu Apr 27, 2017 9:47 pm 
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Okay things like this really kill my motivation to go out and approach girls. To be honest im kind of angry right now so I might vent a little.

Basicly im looking for advice. I meet this girl at the gym in my college approached her asking if I could check out jump ropes here blah blah we talked I gave her a push pull she tried to qualify her self after the push pull so I would say she was intrested.

I told her I would like to get to know her and proposed we do a coffee date tommorow at a certain time (which is now today) and she said yes although she said she has a presentation right after the date which I believe.

So the date we meet up shes dressed up of course for the presentation shes a little worried about the presentation. We talk, I feel like were getting along good. We have similar interests, she wants to study what Im studying, shes my type physically. I didnt escalate too much with her only had my arm around her while we were talking. Anyway we talked for about 10 to 15 minutes and her friends that were sitting in another part of the coffee shop come and interrupt us saying that they need to get ready for the presentation and something about she needs to come and work on her part. So she apologies and proposes that we see each at 3:30 that day. I propose 4 because I had a class at that time. Shes says Im not sure I have a class around that time and that she would contact me and let me know. So we say our goodbyes and leave.

I message her asking how her presentation went 15 minutes before 3:30 because I got out of class early and she replied to me at 4:11 just saying "good thanks". So my question is where do I take it from here. I feel I cant pursue her or its going to be a lost cause. Im not sure if her friends told her some BS about me or what because I do approach girls on campus alot and its possible they've seen me do this. The only thing I couldve done different I believe is take her to a coffee shop that wasnt on campus but very close by and its still possible Id run into someone she knows there as its right across from campus. It sucks when the ones you actually want to get dont pan out. Anyways any advice is appreciated about what I do now and what I could've done different. thanks guys.

Note: Her presentation was probably about 40 minutes away when her friends came and took her.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 27, 2017 10:38 pm 
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Extend another invitation for something that's not coffee. A walk would be better than coffee. If she gives you an excuse or ignores you, then move on. If she agrees then make plans for when you'll meet.

Looking at it from the outside, it doesn't seem like this is going that great for you. Your coffee date is interrupted and she wanted to meet again when she's under a time constraint.

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Thanks for the advice, I kind of pushed the first date for around that time but yeah the second meetup would of had a time constraint.


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If you're on a coffee date, you're not on a date. Those two words don't belong in the same sentence.

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