Hey guys first post on this forum, so please excuse me if this isn't the right space for this sort of question. To quickly describe myself, I'm 24, family is fairly well off, I went to an elite undergrad / go to an elite law school, probably on the surface I would say I'm a 7/10~ guy but with the soft factors am fairly attractive to women. I don't really do any PUA stuff when I go out although when I was younger I read a lot of material and keep a lot of the principles in my mind (cocky funny attitude / body language / kino escalation) sort of unconsciously in how I interact with girls.

Anyways, I recently lost a good deal of weight (about 50 pounds- gained a lot of weight in college, didn't really matter because I had a girlfriend / was in a fraternity) after somewhat socially isolating myself for a period of time, and I'm back to being attractive again. Now recently I've been going out to bars, and I can more or less make out with 1-2 girls every time I go and can bring a girl back maybe 1/3rd of the time. What is KILLING me, is that it seems that unless I bring a girl back, AND have sex with her (which I absolutely don't want to do because of legal liability), it doesn't matter how great the interaction went at the bar, she just either won't answer my texts or will flake on me. What's going on? It's not that I'm a bad kisser (always get compliments), and literally these girls will be down to go to the bar bathroom to hookup in the moment (but again legal liability so not an option)...and yet the next day it's all forgotten.

Is this a common issue? Why aren't these interactions going forward? Am I not as attractive as I think I am? Am I just being pushy without realizing it? Is it my text game (I usually just invite her to meet me out that weekend / come to pregame with my buddies)? What should you be texting them?

Would appreciate any insights, thank you.