New here and far from good at any of this dating stuff.

Here's my story

So I have had a thing for a co-worker who is in a long term relationship (5 years). I never expressed any interest in her because of here relationship but happened to tell another co- worker about it and he, in tern told her. Low and behold she told him that she would be down if she didnt have a BF. Next thing I know she is texting me randomly, just funny stuff nothing beyond that, then texting turns daily 100% initiated by her and goes on for a few months. We joke back and forth about going on a date and she eventually lets me know that she likes me and "wishes she met me years ago."

All while this is happening she is in a rough spot in her relationship, tells my co-worker that she is un-happy and wants to end it with her BF. We wind up going out on a "date" but nothing really happens because she was still in a relationship. I however do ask her straight up what is going on, she explains the complications of leaving him, having no where to go, having no stuff, joint bank account, yadda yadda yadda. I leave it alone, we just have a good time.

Later that night she texts me that she cant stop thinking about me, wishes I was with her, etc.... 2 days later she leaves her boyfriend and that night I go to see her upon her request and we make out, thats it. She spills her guts to me over text, telling me we were meant to be together and I go along with it. A few days pass we have a second date planned and that morning she blows me off explaining that she had a long talk with her boyfriend and that she cant throw away 5 years without trying to make it work.

I Politely respond. Telling her that she deserves to be happy and if that's what her choice is then I can respect that. we have texted back and forth for the last 2 days Un fortunately I've sent her a couple sorry sap texts about how we could have had something pretty great but when she asked to be friends I declined.

The first day back at work with her was strange but we acted like nothing had happened, I told her I was un comfterable with that and it needs to change, the next day we ignored each other. When I saw the chance I told her "thank you, this kind of interaction works for me."

That night she texted me "sorry about the weirdness today, Its a bummer having you say thanks for basically leaving you alone" she waited a couple hours then said goodnight. I didn't reply untill late today (1 day later).

I said: "I don't want you to think I'm being rude by not responding, I'm just trying to respect your relationship with your boyfriend"
she replied: "I understand but we really need to be our selvs at work and not be all weird, K Ill quit being a weirdo, LOL.
I replied with a thumbs up.
Her: "you cant even type OK, Geez.
Me: "ok"

Honestly I would just normally let this go but I really dig this girl. So here's my question What should I do?

She obviously isn't strongly committed, and she obviously wants to fuck you.
I'd take her to pound town on the fuck truck, but you'er not me.

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Yea dude
her boyfried was a pussy probably
she wanted you to go ham sandwich on her

Lol, you guys are funny. Yea I get that she wants me but what's my next move, continue ignoring her? Or go back to acting like nothing happened, friends and all.

Go meet other women.

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Dude, in these situations I just think "how often do I see her?" If you will never see her again, do whatever, grab her ass if you want, it doesn't matter. If you see her often, just stop talking to her, just greet her here and there.

Invite her out, near your place.

Escalate and provide an excuse to get back to your apartment for 'a few minutes'.

Make a play.

Now you won't have to regret never having tried, in the future.

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Thanks for the advice. From everyone for that matter, but this is what i was looking for, like how to act around her, I guess. Anything I can do to make her want me even more?

I would just try to get with another woman while at the same time being cordial with her, so she doesn't see it as you trying to make her envious. But try to not talk to her - be cold and kind of cordial while being in another woman.
I think if she calls you out on that you could respond with something half cold half warm.
For example: You answer her saying you stopped talking to her with "ok babe" instead of "ok", which is too cold. That way you are kind of going kind of flirty while still stating you are desinterested/more interested in the other girl.