So,

I've started to realize that part of my problems with AA, frame control, shit tests, and everything else are due to being high all of the time..

If you read my "beta faggot" thread, what I forgot to mention is that the first time I saw the girl I made sure to stay sober.

The second time, I was baked.

The problem is, I have a digestive disorder that weed really, really helps with... Like part of the reason I wasn't able to date in my 20's is because I was literally afraid of shitting my pants when I went out... After 8 years of getting stoned I hardly ever have symptoms and my last test showed that all of the tissue in my digestive tract is back to normal... Of course, I'm also on new meds and am doing acupuncture ... Still I get symptoms, sometimes, and puffing the herb calms it down...

So I need to find a way to get past this hurdle...

I'm proposing that I stuff down loads of Immodium until I can improve my social skills a little bit, and maybe then gradually allow myself to be a little baked and kind of ease into it...

You can learn to do anything while you're high, it just takes longer... I edited two papers published in the Oxford University Press while I was baked.... The editors praised how clear and easy to read they were ....

But.... here's my actual question:

Do any of you smoke weed? How does it affect your performance? Have you learned to work around it? Have you needed to abstain while learning?

Don't game high or drunk. That includes opiates. It tilts men towards flowery and emotional...two things that dominant males are not.

I can't tell you how many "high" texts I wish I could take back over the years, lol. I would have never sent them sober. The biggest weakness with being on these drugs is it removes a social awareness barrier for most people, and we end up saying and doing things that are over the top.

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weed is ok if i am at home or with friends somewhere,but not if i go approaching,shoves me in my head and then i overthink,way too much,so it"s a no for me

Doubt it's the weed. Plenty of guys see action with bud and booze. It is just you.

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I don't smoke, nor am I an advocate for it or against it..

The bottom line is..

There are guys they smoke all day long that get laid, and guys that don't smoke at all that get laid. Its not the substance as much as its them. Somethings make it easier, others make it harder, but ultimately you have to be better than your circumstances and/or your habits. If you're not than you just don't have the stomach or strength for this field. Its YOU not the substance.

Keep thinking of reasons for why you're not where you want to be instead of taking full responsibility and acknowledging that you have to put in to get what you want out.

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Again, as Ive seen RC tell you as well...is there some reason you're not going out and meeting girls instead of looking for unnecessary solutions? No malls, bars, clubs, shops nearby?

As a side note, if I had to recommend one product for new guys, it would be MM, just based on how many guys are overthinking shit without meeting women or even approaching. Shit was simple ; Newbie mission - 4 approaches and hr, 3 hours a night, 3 nights a week or some shit. Do it. Heres some shit to say. Now it seems like new guys are meeting 1 woman a month and thinking, reading and watching videos way too much. No one is meeting enough women anymore.

Thanks guys.

I agree that it does make men talk flowery and dramatically.

It doesn't.

Some people fight when they drink, some text their ex's and some just have a good time.
The substance itself doesn't make you do shit. It just lowers inhibitions and lets your raw personality take the foreground.

That said, if you have flowery tendencies, then yeah, they'll be surfacing when you're high as a kite.

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True,couple of my friends asked me what do you say,what does this mean etc,but when it comes to taking action they all just rationalize and reply what do they think how something should be done,but they don't end up taking action,so I sarge solo all the time

I quit weed over a year and a half ago. I've noticed a difference. I personally have an addictive personality and had been smoking for a bit of time before then.

Then again, i've seen many guys that smoke up at parties get laid and i've seen many guys who don't to any drugs get laid. I'm not for or against it, but i'll probably never touch the stuff again.

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