I met this girl at a bar, chatted her up and got her number. I have trouble with the next step. How do I establish that I want to be more than friends? I have trouble being pigeonholed in the nice guy / just friends category.

dude
first thing, dont spend more than like 5 minutes on the phone. tony clink - the layguide, he says you're a busy guy and dont have time on the phone something like that. anyways

call her up make sure she remembers you say whats up. see if she wants to chill or somehting along those lines but make sure you dont make it sound like a date. thats pretty much it, your goal is to arrange a second meet. let me know what happens,

yo here are some things you can do with her. i suggest NO MOVIES
-mini golf
-grab ice cream someplace (but its winter thats no good)
-museum
-go karting
keep it on the fun side. movies in a theatre are lame cause you dont talk and it could be akward whereas once you know her a bit you could watch a movie at your house where you two could fool around you know. anyways good luck man
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Well I guess what I mean is, how do I go about creating sexual tension othw hen i call her up and when we hang out again.