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PostPosted: Wed Dec 21, 2016 4:20 pm 
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Is she french? I can tell you from experience they are a different beast. How old is she? Is she here permanently or just studying and then going back to her country (if she's french). This might help guide you a little.


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 21, 2016 8:03 pm 
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"We should slow down, I like you."
Agree. Take a step back. Continue as before.

I agree with everything Arch has said here.

Sometimes when women feel they are rocketing uncontrollable down hill into a pool of sexual bliss, they may feel the urge to pump the brakes a little.

Reasons they may do this.

1. To enjoy the ride. All this sexual tension building is exciting for them.

2. Lack of comfort, she may be attracted to you, but that won’t lead to sex until she feels a certain level of comfort being with you.

3. ASD (Anti slut defense) She doesn't want you, or anyone else for that matter to think she would climb up any available pole at 1st provocation.

4. She is feeling gross. She had a minor shart incident at dinner and would be mortified to have you find a drying shit dribblet on the string of her thong. Or her Aunt Flo is paying her monthly visit, and turned her downstairs into a scene from Texas Chainsaw Massacre.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2016 5:51 pm 
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Is she french? I can tell you from experience they are a different beast. How old is she? Is she here permanently or just studying and then going back to her country (if she's french). This might help guide you a little.
She's from California. She's 21 and yes, she will be studying here for 3 years. She hasn't mentioned what she'll do after, I assume go back to her home town, I don't know.

Why, what do you think being French changes so much about a woman?

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2016 6:08 pm 
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Reasons they may do this.

1. To enjoy the ride. All this sexual tension building is exciting for them.

2. Lack of comfort, she may be attracted to you, but that won’t lead to sex until she feels a certain level of comfort being with you.

3. ASD (Anti slut defense) She doesn't want you, or anyone else for that matter to think she would climb up any available pole at 1st provocation.

4. She is feeling gross. She had a minor shart incident at dinner and would be mortified to have you find a drying shit dribblet on the string of her thong. Or her Aunt Flo is paying her monthly visit, and turned her downstairs into a scene from Texas Chainsaw Massacre.
Nice one, dude. Never thought of reason #4.

She's showing a good amount of interest by initiating texts and talking to me from her trip. Taking Arch's advice, I'm not becoming her 'text buddy', just replying/texting her a little every couple of days. I guess we'll see the full story when she gets back and we meet up.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2016 7:56 pm 
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Is she french? I can tell you from experience they are a different beast. How old is she? Is she here permanently or just studying and then going back to her country (if she's french). This might help guide you a little.
She's from California. She's 21 and yes, she will be studying here for 3 years. She hasn't mentioned what she'll do after, I assume go back to her home town, I don't know.

Why, what do you think being French changes so much about a woman?
It has less to do about how the women are then how the men act around women. French men are extremely forward and all the french girls I've met would always complain about how they never get it on in my hometown. They like different things and usually require a different, more agressive approach.


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*Little Update:

Out at a bar, I open a set and I eventually discover that the person I'm talking to is We Should Slow Down I Like You Girl's friend. (We'll call 'Slow Down Girl' HB9 for short, and we'll call her friend that I met randomly, Buddy). Its a small world after all. The night continues and me and my friends get invited back to one of their's and eventually after more drinks and games everyone KOs around the house.

I'm in the living room on one of the couches, eyes closed, trying to sleep, but Buddy and a friend of her's (I'll call her Sara) are drunk whispering. On and on and on. Talking about random stuff. Still can't sleep. Then I hear:

Sara: "What do you think Tinder is like?...Just a bunch of weirdos and desperate guys?"
Buddy: "I've used it, I didn't really like any of my matches...Actually...[Lowers her voice even more]...HB9 said most of her matches were totally lame too, but she said she met 2 guys she really likes off of it..."[Then I hear her bracelets jingle from what I assume was her pointing at me]
Sara: "They're dating?"
Buddy: "Well, her and her ex broke up a few months ago, they were going out for over 2 years, so" and then another friend came in and cut them off.

Overhearing this just confirmed all the interest she's been showing by messaging me so much from her trip. The interesting thing is that there is also another guy who has stepped into the ring with me for a few rounds. Last time I was in this situation I was a 17 year old needy chump and the girl was the first girl I ever fell for. I was 'Mr. I'llTakeYouOutToACandleLitDinnerWheneverYouWantAndBuyYouFlowers' trying to get her to pick me while the other guy was out supposedly meeting other people. Take a wild guess who she picked.

Guess this is the perfect opportunity to settle the score for myself.

Anyone have any good tips on blowing out competition other than continue being high value, fun, really incredible in bed and not being too attached/available?

I'm confident, but its always good to see a situation through another's eyes.

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Anyone have any good tips on blowing out competition other than continue
being high value, fun, really incredible in bed and not being too attached/available?
Nope, that should do it.

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1) I've never come across this line before. Sure, I've come across "This is too fast, we should slow down/This is crazy, we shouldn't." etc, but never "We should slow down, I like you." and was wondering if anyone could shed more light on it. Why do women want to slow things down with men they consider having a serious relationship with? Has anyone else had a similar experience, how did it turn out?

2) That was the last I saw of her, now she is away in France for the holidays for 3 weeks. What do I do to maintain/build attraction and comfort long distance? Do I need to during this 3 week period that she is away? What would be a good strategy?
1) When you translate to our(men) language, she said this: "I think you are boyfriend material, I like you and I don't want you to think that I am a slut, because that would be bad for relationship. I want you to think that I am innocent little girl that will be faithful and wife material. That is why I will make you wait for sex a little bit longer"

2) Things can go either way. I would just text her from time to time. Maybe send her some cool pictures. Also some sexual jokes to build attraction etc.

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Maxi2 here. (For some reason I couldn't log into my old account).

We have successfully F-closed!

Could not have asked for a better result. A lot of attraction, comfort and just solid game results.

Some very good advice was posted on here by you guys. Thanks to all the experienced PUAs who helped out.

2 years ago I wouldn't have had the competence to confidently talk to an 8 without stuttering and today I'm F-closing 9's who can't wait to see me again.

Game never ceases to amaze.

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