| I'm re-posting an earlier response to this question from the "Age" thread:
I'm 40.
I had a threesome two nights ago with my 21 year old girlfriend and her roommate. My gf is a 9/10, the roommate a 7.5/8.
Before the threesome, I was at the bar with both women. As usual, I didn't say much, mostly observed and listened. The bar was fairly packed, mostly with men. Here's what I heard from my gf's single roommate, and my gf:
"Everyone looks the same, all a bit plump and wearing sweatshirts. Dudes, please hit the gym".
"This is a low quality crowd"
" I wouldn't hook up with anyone here."
A guy came up to talk to the roommate. He was nervous. Their response:
"sooo awkward"
"weird"
"lacking confidence"
I cannot, and I repeat, I cannot emphasize enough that as you age, fitness becomes more and more important. I hit the gym every other day. I am not a professional body builder. I just have enough muscle (wide shoulders, arms, chest) that makes me stand out from a crowd of lumpy, frumpy men. I also don't wear sneakers, sweatshirts, or sports team memorabilia. This alone makes me stand out from 90% of men my age.
As the evening wore on, my gf's roommate kept feeling my shoulder and my arm, along with my gf. I then led the party back to their apartment, where they baked xmas cookies before everything went down.
It is so important to be fit. .. Yes, the inner game is just as important (cockiness, honesty). However, if you do not implement steps to stand out physically, you are going to be spending more and more time jerking off as you age.
Be what you want to attract. I'm attracted to fit, feminine women, so I do my best to be fit. It's very basic science of attraction.
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